Saturday, June 6, 2015

I am pregnant after I broke up with him, what do I do?

Hello aunty Amara and other Avl fans.. I have a very big issue and am seeking for advice. I found out am two months pregnant after I broke up with my boyfriend. I was seeing my period throughout the semester break so I didn't notice on time. 
The boy in question is a student like me and does not want the child. Unfortunately for me my people already found out and are pressing me to give them the boy's number. They even want me to marry him to avoid people talking about my family. I don't know what to do now, I already made the mistake and don't want to tie the boy down because am pregnant....
My friends and the boy are begging me to abort the baby but I can't, I don't want to think about what will happen to me if I do...
Your advice is needed.
Dear sender,
I am glad at least you have chosen to give the seed in you the privilege to enjoy the beauty of life.
When one engages into sex with all its thrills and sensations, one should be prepared for the responsibilities and sacrifices that come with a good romping.
I know you did not prepare for this but see this as an opportunity to be the best God is preparing you to become.
Please give your parents the number of the boy so that they can meet with his parents and notify them of their baby on the way.
It may not necessarily be for marriage but for the health and safety of your baby.
Marriage shouldn't be contracted because you are pregnant for a man but because you love a man well enough to give your all to grow in love with him.
Register for ante natal care and please eat healthy food.
Do not listen to his friends, none of them were in the room that night and none would be there to for you should their selfish intentions go awry or should your womb be destroyed or should you lose your life.
I pray for the divine provision of all you need to take care of yourself and your baby.
You have all it takes to come out of this stronger than you ever imagined, please do not give up nor look back.

1 comment:

  1. When u keep saying "the boy", I wonder what u mean.


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