Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Now I'm pregnant, he's gone!

Goodmorning ma. Aunty I just got introduced to this page by a friend. I met this 45 years old man, sometime ago on Facebook. We saw two weeks later, he started talking about wanting to settle down (didn't propose directly to me sha, said please I be myself and let's see if things would work out between us) he introduced me to his friends, took me everywere he went. Asked my opinion of renovations in house/life generally. Considered my opinion and treated me as priority. Asked me to come live with him atleast for a while (i declined) just visits. Sex happened...no protection. I asked him why? He said if my mates don't have kids, abi if I wasn't ready to be a mom yet? I let it slide. Aunty I travelled, 1st week...normal calls. 2nd week plenty missed calls from my part. He began giving excuses, and telling me how busy he was...mostimes begging me not to judge him or misinterprete him, 3days straight now won't even pick up my calls. I just found out I am pregnant ma. Called him to ask let's see, he claimed he's at the airport travelling abroad and he's late, call me back please! Till now no response. He just changed ma. This is someone we flowed happily we were great friends or so I thought! So even matured men can be this terrible ma? He has never been married ma, because even friends are jokingly saying in my presence they pray I am his last bus top complimenting me. I have been wondering ? What do I do to my self now, I have another man seriously on my neck to marry me even though I didn't use to give him face, I terribly heartbroken ma. I am shocked he can leave the country without even at least briefing me, or no longer answer my calls.
Dear sender, 
I'm so sorry about that but you could have done better than sleep with a man you barely know all because he promised you marriage. 
If he has relatives that you know or his friends who can confide in you, then do well to inform them so that they can help you get to his family so that you can let them know of their baby. 
Do well to enroll for antenatal care for your health and that of your baby. 
Though you never planned for this, decide to be a good mum to your baby. 
Let your major focus be on your baby and not relationship. 
All the best. 

12 comments:

  1. Lesson 101 never allow yourself to be pregnant for a man that has not married you...there is nothing like pregnancy by mistake, if you have an unprotected sex, flushing the semen out of your system is as simple as ABC, not that I condoning your man for abandoning you, but I hate it when a grown woman says that she's pregnant out of wedlock cos you have plenty of options not to be pregnant, but you chose to be ignorant. #enoughsaid

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  2. This Facebook romance. Now see the mess you put yourself in. What if everything he told you about himself is a lie who do u cry to imagine not been able to trace your child's father. All the best. You should go look for him.

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  3. Premarital sex, Premarital sex. That guy just wanted to have sex with you jor. And now he's done. I guess he's rich. But you didnt tell us your age i just hope its not despiration that led to this. Anyway, the did has been done. Am sorry no advice here. Just take good care of yourself. I long for that day when girls will start having sex only when they are married.

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  4. It's a good thing you know your fertility status by now. Please be sure to run STD/HIV test also. Congratulations on your conception!

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  5. Why all this sex with no protection what ot he have STD/HIV? What you gonna do. I always say this if you are not married and want to engage your self in this sex act then make sure you always use #CONDOM HIV no dey show for face, protection matters alot. There are 3 things involve in premarital sex when you do it unprotected. 1 STD's/HIV 2 Pregnancy 3 Not getting any at all. #Ella

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  6. NO ABORTION!!!!!!!! go to the Lord in prayer, ask Him to fix the situation.

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