Saturday, July 4, 2015

Did I make the right decision?

Aunty amara good day, I was the lady that posted about a guy I met online, who promised to come and see me (Click here for more)
But the problem is that i have already told him that I would like to be meeting him in public and after he might have lodged in a hotel, he was angry that he can't travel all the way from Lagos to come and see me, then I would be meeting him in public.........
Am confused, I don't know if I made the right decision.

Dear sender,
He probably was angry because he wasn't only hoping to see you but to also justify his travelling and sacrificing his time and resources to see you by sleeping with you.
This isn't a case of being confused but that of deciding on whether to lower yours standard and self esteem by sleeping with him or to preserve your integrity and dignity by telling him your stand and bidding him goodbye should he not be comfortable with that.
Sex may be cheap but most times it comes with a lot of complicated consequences, one that doesn't give you so much freedom as a lady compared to men.
Be wise enough to discern when a man is out to drain the juice in you and when he really long to make you feel better, happier and fulfilled in love and in life.
I know that you love him but do you think he really love you as much as he claimed?
Why is he really angry because you chose not to sleep in the same hotel with him?
My suggestion is simple, if he's not comfortable with your arrangements, then you may need to bid him goodbye.


  1. You made the right decision, as a matter of fact it is very glaring that he has an ulterior motive for refusing to see you in public...If you see him in his hotel room, there are chances that you guys will end up having sex or there could be other unforeseen occurrences, so if you want to stay safe from all these, simply stand your ground on seeing him in public. #enoughsaid

  2. If you want to have sex with him then meet him in his hotel room but if you do not want sex then meet him in public place,be wise. #Ella

  3. 'Never lower your standards to accommodate people who have refused to raise theirs' ~ Mandy Hale

    Babe,you did the right. Relationship etiquettes are created for your safety. Never violate them. If he's looking for a lady of worth,he should and will look for you(if he's worth it). But,if he's looking for a prostitute,you don't belong there. So,to hell with him. Good riddance to bad rubbish! ‪#Quick‬Downloads™101

    Download 'WHO SHOULD I MARRY?',by Kingsley Okonkwo@


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