Saturday, July 25, 2015

He still wants me in his life!

Hi Amara, good day. 
Please I need your advice on how to handle this issue. 
I met a guy and we both loved each other, he proposed two months after we met and I accepted. After which he came for introduction as Igbo custom demands. 
The wedding was supposed to take place two months after he came for the introduction. Nothing happened after the  two months, he later started complaining that he does not know what was happening to his finance, that any money that enters his hand something would come up and swallow it. I told him to be prayerful. One day he told me he went for a crusade where the man of God there ministered to him telling him that his problems were from me that they have spiritual husband not me(*lol.. Don't mind him) . 
That he should forget about marrying me and embark on three months prayers, when he told me this I told him to do prayers given to him. 
He started the prayers and started having spiritual attacks. To cut the long story short, he said we should go our separate ways, that if we were meant to be together that we would definitely come back together again. 
I left the relationship with broken heart. The problem now is that the guy still wants me in his life no matter what. 
I succeeded in pushing him out of my life with hash words but he kept appearing in my dreams saying that I abandoned him. 
Please what do I do, this whole thing is driving me nuts.

Dear sender, 
The truth is, it is easier to manage a partner with emotional instability than one with spiritual instability. 
The reason is simple, he would always put everything that happens in your house to the pastor, prophet, priest, and the seers. 
He will always accuse the closest person as being behind his downfall when he's lazy and the problem he's facing whenever the journey is tough. 
He may appear to be prayerful but everything he does is dependent on what his pastor or one minister said. 
He's full of fears and as such he finds it difficult to even trust God talk more of you. 

If his pastor said that you had a spiritual husband, why then does he still want you in his life or is he the one the pastor saw as your spiritual husband? 
Why does he suddenly want you in his life when he was told after prayers to do away with you. 
These show inconsistencies in his relationship with God. 
I may not tell you what to do, but I needed to explain this to you so that you will have a better understanding of what is going through in his mind. 
The devil always fight the marriage institution every now and day. 
And whenever the marriage is captured, every product of the marriage will be corrupted. 
This is why couples cannot just walk into marriage without having a deep relationship with God. 
Marriage is no joke, so you need to be spiritually discerning to understand the dynamics of the enemy. 
Have a date with him and discuss about your relationship with him and whatever else he may have to say. 
If he hasn't been convinced about who he desires to marry as wife, there's no need disturbing your peaceful life. 
You on your own need to seek God's face and be convinced so that you do not get unnecessary worried about his attitude. 
As for your dream, I make nothing out of it because anything could have made you see him in your dream, his constant calls and sms, your constant worries about the relationship and your happiness in life. 
Seek God's face and don't be in a haste to push him away until you have heard from God. 


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