Friday, July 3, 2015

"I'm being manipulated" he said.

Good morning ma,am a lady of 25 years in a relationship with a man of 36 years. 
We started this year January and we decided to take it to another level (marriage)after I was convinced that he is my husband,he possessed all the qualities I need in a man and we loved ourselves.
We've done our introduction and he came last saturday to collect list. After he collected the list,he told me that he is not happy within and that he feels that he is being manipulated. When we went to one church and they told him that I'm not his wife. 
But when we started this relationship,he told me that he was told that he will meet his wife in a surprised way,how we meet I can't explain. 
I'm confused,don't know what to do.
please I need your advise.

Dear sender,
The greatest tragedy that would befall you isn't that he left you when you thought it was heading for the alter but that you are married to a man who has little or no relationship with God.
It could be very terrible and disappointing because he would drag you to many churches, and prayer houses and painfully it isn't what a husband or the head of the home should possess as a quality .
All you need to do is simple,return to God and seek his face.
Use your knees and quit listening to his feelings and emotions.
If he was being manipulated at 36 then he needs more prayers than you thought otherwise.
Always remember that if God has ordained it, nothing can hinder it from coming to fulfilment.
Watch, pray and be hopeful,He shall perfect all that concerns you in due time .

4 comments:

  1. Why do people always fall for what one pastor or prophet in a church said about their lives, how sure is he that he's not being deceived into dumping you...something tells me that he's not happy with the list your people gave him, since he said he feels he's being manipulated immediately he collected the list. My advice is that you should step back and reevaluate everything about him and know if he truly loves you, because now is the best time to walk away from the relationship than when you enter the marriage proper. #enoughsaid

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  2. Dear poster,theres nothing as worst as dating a confused man, a man that do not have a say or stand of his own..one pastor said this one pastor said that..dont rush him into any thing,just be prayerful so you dont end up being confused like him..

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  3. Dear poster,theres nothing as worst as dating a confused man, a man that do not have a say or stand of his own..one pastor said this one pastor said that..dont rush him into any thing,just be prayerful so you dont end up being confused like him..

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  4. When i wanted to marry my husband his pastors were not happy at all. They told him i wasn't his wife that he should pick a sister from the church cos i can't pray bcos of my Catholic faith ,i told him to go ahead and marry one of their so called sister bcos i wasn't even ready for marriage then. But he stopped attending d church and married me and since then he has never stepped his foot in that church. So i think u should give ur man space to sort out his confusion cos i hate guys that see marrying a girl as doing d girl a favour

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