Friday, July 10, 2015

I'm heart broken!

Aunt please I need your help am in a very deep shit. 
Please save my relationship. I meet this girl like a year ago. 
I love this girl with everything in me and she knows that. 
I always make sure I provide for her in any little way I can just to make sure she's happy. 
I'm this guy that is emotionally and I think she's using it against me. 
I have told this girl to give me till 2016 to put things together that I want to marry her and I mean it from the bottom of my heart. 
Just this morning she woke up and asked me to leave her alone. That she's frustrated and depressed and that she's not fake but tired of suffering. 
That if her parents can't support her that she need someone that can. 
That I haven't offended her in any way but am not what she need. That I need someone that will understand me and be patience with me. That she's losing her patience. That I can't take care of her needs. That she want to quit than rather cheat on me. 
That needs are necessity of life and she's willing to take it by force. 
This wasn't the first time she's threating me about calling it quit. Aunt this is a girl I never said NO to whenever she need something from me. 
Most times I denied myself my many things just to make her happy. 
Guess she doesn't know what I put myself into just to make her happy and always provide for her. 
Am heart broken please what should I do. 

Dear sender,
A loving heart is afraid of nothing because those who never appreciate true love will never reduce you.
When you have given your all to love and appreciate someone and she chooses to leave, please do not leave the door shut, open it and bid her goodbye not because you do not love her but because she cannot be of any blessings and benefit to you.
I may not know who is luring her away from you but if she could fall for it, then you can't help but let her go.
I know you may be expecting me to encourage you to beg and plead with her but nope that's not what you need to do.
You need a lady who believes in your vision as a man, who appreciates you for who you are, who is willing to walk the distance with you and help you to succeed.
You need happiness and peace of mind as a man not constant sorrows and worries for a lady who by all you have said cares less about who you are.
If you have to always beg her to be with you,what then will you do should there be a challenge that's weighing you down and she simply ignores or worst still leave you for another man?
I know you love her so much, please share part of that love with yourself and open your eyes so that you can see that the pretty face that you cherish doesn't have significant effect in her heart.
I was trying to make up excuses for her but none is good enough for a lady who knows that you are good but doesn't want to suffer because she is looking for who will support her while you live without any support or should I say while nobody will support you.
Wake up if you were dreaming, its past 12 noon and its time to examine everything and address them the way they are.
You deserve love, please do not lose your identity for a lady who doesn't appreciate you and is bent on frustrating you with her attitude.
God is faithful and will reward you with the best should she decide to leave you for another partner.

1 comment:

  1. Amara said:
    1) When you have given your all to love and appreciate someone and she chooses to leave, please do not leave the door shut, open it and bid her goodbye not because you do not love her but because she cannot be of any blessings and benefit to you.
    2) You need a lady who believes in your vision as a man, who appreciates you for who you are, who is willing to walk the distance with you and help you to succeed.
    3) You need happiness and peace of mind as a man not constant sorrows and worries for a lady who by all you have said cares less about who you are.
    4) please share part of that love with yourself and open your eyes so that you can see that the pretty face that you cherish doesn't have significant effect in her heart.
    5) You deserve love, please do not lose your identity for a lady who doesn't appreciate you and is bent on frustrating you with her attitude.
    I believe u learn something from those vital point of Amara. Wake up man.. shot the door behind u and welcome the blessing ahead of u.

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