Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Where did I go wrong?

Thank you ma and may God continue to bless your endeavor toward helping many lives in this forum. .....

It's been one year and seven months since I knew this girl.........
we're just friends not dating yet but all my intentions was to marry her........
The problem am having with her is .....
I have begged and begged her to find something doing but she refused telling me that she has a call from God and the call is pushing her..
So she can't do anything. ........
I met her through my cousin and I have told my cousin to talk to her .........
Now she said she can't work in the village unless I would find work for her in the city......
Since then she refused to call or flash me.........
I WANT TO KNOW WHERE I WENT WRONG ....
THANKS AND GOD BLESS

Dear sender,
I understand that you have good intentions for her and I understand that you truly love and desire to see her happy.
Please do well to sit her down and discuss with her so that you would get a better understanding of what her plans is in life.
It would be a bit difficult to impose your plans on her without knowing what her plans and goals are for herself.
It would make sense to know her plans and then let her know your thoughts and intentions, then give her some time to decide what's best for her to do.
I can't add up all she needs by all you said but when you might have discussed with her you would understand her worries, fears, challenges and hindrance and then know what's the best approach to either support her or better still let her go so that you may go for a lady who appreciates your personality and vision.

1 comment:

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