Thursday, August 13, 2015

My Parents Want Me Home.

Good evening AMARA,
Please I want you and members to advice me on this issue. 
I was dating a man,he later proposed to me after which,he came over to do traditional rites,but on planning the wedding and traditional marriage he had an accidents that took two years before he recovered but before then I got pregnant so I decided to stay together with him in his sick bed. 
I found out that man I wanted to marry was a cheat,I started seeing different faces of girls that he cannot even introduce me to them,that was when the problem started. 
Now this man cheated even to my face,I really loved my husband and he knew but I kept wondering why he cheated but any time I confront him with it,he will tell me  that if am not comfortable with his life style of cheating that I should pack and go after all he has not wedded me. 
The most terrible part was that he doesn't take care of his responsibility in the house,now my parents advised me to come home till he completes the marriage rite and wed me and this man used to tell me that he not wedded any woman. Help me out

Dear sender, 
Please do what your parents said that you should do. 
It is a reproach to the family of any woman for their daughter to be hatching babies for a man who they do not know, nor can they identify if they were in the market. 
It is more painful when the woman has to bear the responsibilities for his own children with its attendant abuses that follow suit. 
At the end of the day, he neither respects you nor appreciate your sacrifices for him. 
Please return home to your parents with your children. 
When he pays for your dowry at least, then you may go back to his house and then will you have all the privileges of a wife in his life. 
Until then, you are only doing him a favour with your body. 
All the best dear. 

5 comments:

  1. I think she should stay at his house and struggle by fasting and prayer witch I am sure will help her to get what she wants if this man is really her husband or not only the Lord has a key.if she leaves his house this man will bring others ladies in.My dear staus in prayer and watch what God is.going to do for you soon.

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    1. They have only done introduction so they are not yet married my dear. Who will answer the prayer and fasting made in fornication? She can pray and fast from her parents home, but his attitude has already told her who he is. What more does she want God to do for her concerning this issue?

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  2. I think she should stay at his house and struggle by fasting and prayer witch I am sure will help her to get what she wants if this man is really her husband or not only the Lord has a key.if she leaves his house this man will bring others ladies in.My dear staus in prayer and watch what God is.going to do for you soon.

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  4. What are you still waiting for? Nwanne gbowa door, he do not love you and not ready for marriage. #Ella

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