Wednesday, September 2, 2015

I'm Not Financially Balanced.

Good morning Aunty Amara,please I need your advice.
People keep telling me to go and get married both friends and family, that if am waiting to make money before I get married that am making a mistake, but the issue is that I am not financially balanced, please what should I do because I don't want to make mistake in marriage.
Thanks as I wait for your reply.

Nobody in the whole universe is financially balanced, the reasons are not far fetched, the factors of production, the government policies and the economic crisis will always have its influence on the value of your financial capacity and purchasing power. 
So like your friends rightly suggested that you don't build your home when you have all you need, rather you build your home when you have envisioned the house and you are responsible enough to invest in your home irrespective of how much you may have at the moment. 
If you are responsible and you have means of livelihood, if you have laid down plans and strategies for your family and your children and you have the understanding of what marriage represents in your life and ministry. 
If you have weaned yourself from the influence of your fans, families and friends and you are emotionally, socially, spiritually and psychologically mature to grow in love with your wife, then I would encourage you to consider marriage if God has laid that on your heart. 
The most important thing is that you are focused mentally and ready emotionally for the tasks and responsibilities of your wife and children. 
The part that discourages my heart is seeing men who say that they're not ready for marriage spends most of their income wasting all their earnings on a strange woman and thinking that it's cheaper than getting married. 
There are divine favour and provisions that only married couples can access from the throne of heavens and you cannot receive such until you have walked into the sacred, and divine covenant of marriage. 
Take your time to seek the face of God, organise yourself and allow God to guide your heart on what you truly need to enjoy the unlimited provisions of God's favour and blessings in your life as you prepare for your marriage. 
Let me end my counsel with this... The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him.
Genesis 2:20 ESV
My prayers for you is that God will send a helper fit for your destiny in life. 

Please do well to share your thoughts with me. 
Thank you for your comments on the blog. 

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