Monday, September 21, 2015

Should I Confront Her?

Good evening Aunty Amara, I have been sending text for you more than three time but you're not responding to me please I need your mature advice on this issue please. 
Am dating a guy almost three years now and both of us were planning to settle down, so my guy introduced me to their people and they accepted me including their mum, but he never meet any of my brother or cousin yet.  
Aunty Amara I have a girlfriend who I trust so much,so I went and told the girl everything, how me and my guy went to their people, how they accepted me,Aunty Amara infact I downloaded everything to this girl not knowing that I was digging my grave for her side.
AUNTY AMARA THE WORST PART IS THAT MY GUY IS DATING THIS MY GIRLFRIEND WITHOUT HIDING It. 
I WENT TO MY GUY'S HOUSE ONE SUNDAY LIKE THAT AND I MET THIS MY SO CALLED FRIEND IN MY MAN'S HOUSE SLEEPING ON HIS CHEST, IMMEDIATELY I SAW THEM I JUST CLOSED THE DOOR AND LEFT. 
AUNTY AMARA I HAVE COMPLAINED THAT ISSUE TO THEIR FAMILY SO THEY TOLD ME THAT I SHOULD NOT WORRY ABOUT THE GIRL THAT SHE WAS WASTING HER TIME, THAT HIS SON WILL NOT MARRY HER. 
RIGHT NOW AM CONFUSED, PLEASE MA SHOULD I CONFRONT HER OR SHOULD I MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE? 
PLEASE I NEED YOUR MATURE ADVICE BECAUSE AM NOT TALKING TO THE GIRL ANYMORE. PLEASE  MA SHOULD I CONFRONT HER? 

I am deeply pained to hear that your very own "friend" chose to stab you while you were still dreaming but more painful that you spent three years with a time waster, a player and a manipulative irresponsible man. 
His family may have told you what you wanted to hear but the truth is that you can only be married to their son for you to have fellowship with his family and not otherwise. 
You should have known the kind of friend you had before trusting her with the details of your relationship with him. 
You should have known also that no matter how close you may have been with your friend, there were some things that you ought to keep to yourself knowing that they were exclusively for you and your partner' s consumption. 
Now that this has happened, please let them be and move on with your life. 
Men like your partner ought not to be kept close as friends because they most often lose focus on what is more important and they can never make you feel happy and fulfilled in life. 
If he's already displaying such attitude now, then there is no need for confrontation but a need for thanksgiving for saving your life from what could have been a miserable marriage with many prayers, fasting and unnecessary weeping and pains. 
Please if you don't mind, please forgive both of them and extend your blessings to both of them. 
God is faithful to give you a faithful and focused man who will love you sincerely and respect your emotions. 

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