Wednesday, September 30, 2015

What Should I Do?

There is this pastor( single), we do chat on whatsapp and bbm...
We flirt during our chat...at times he calls me *****ma baby...
He goes as far as showing me his business, and sister through whatsapp and all that...
He even gets jealous when I talk to other guys but he hasn't made his intentions known to me yet...
He goes as far as telling me he is thinking what the future holds for him and all...
I think am beginning to like him like am crazy... Don't know what to do....and I like him so much...
What do you think?...
He tells me he is hungry...what he is cooking and all that....
I even asked him why he does not go home immediately after vigil by 3 am... 
He asked if I was afraid...that God is with him. 

Always remember that a pastor is a man with a special needs. He need a partner who maybe willing to sacrifice her space and comfort for the sake of his ministry. 
He may not always have the time and depending on the nature of his ministry may go the extra mile for the sake of his ministry. 
Be guided it may not always be rosy and romantic in the beginning but with patience, understanding and trust you will surely enjoy your journey with him. 
While he's emotionally connected to you, please help him by seeking God's face and finding out more about his ministry. 
Get to know him personally and please do not drag him down if you aren't sure of his vision and calling in life. 
Give him some time and allow him to redefine the relationship and make his intentions known. 
Pray for him and always remember that one of the areas he needs help is in prayers.

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