Wednesday, November 25, 2015

He Doesn't Know How Much I Love Him!

Hello Aunty Amara....
I need help as I write this in tears. Am a young lady, and my boyfriend and I stay in the same compound but different houses. Although I knew he was a player who just loves playing games with girls and all, I still loved him because I thought I could deal with it if he was so in love with me.
Things were going well aunt Amara, we were so in love and he would spend so much time with me, even with the abuses he gave to me physically and verbally, I still loved him. He has nothing to give me, and I never ask because I love for love itself.
Just recently aunt Amara , things are changing, he no longer wants to spend time with me again, he doesn't smile when am around anymore, he doesn't want to see me except I want to, and he only wants to see me when he's hungry and he no longer touches me that well again, not to talk of wanting sex with me anymore.
He gets angry when I try to tell him how I feel about our relationship, and he wouldn't listen.... We no longer talk and laugh as we used to before and its hurting cos I love him so much.
I have tried breaking up with him, but he normally comes back when he needs something. Am not trying to say we've never had a problem, cos we did but the case is different now.
He has told me countlessly that if I want to stay, I should and if I want to go, I should too.
Aunt Amara , he doesn't know how much I love him because I have sacrificed so many things for him and now am filled with regrets.
Should I just let go or should I continue? Cos he normally tells me he loves me and I really don't know how true it is.
Please help me unlove him please, before I lose my mind

You deserve better than destroying your body, wasting your time and emotions and resources for a player who is out to taste, eat, wipe his mouth and bid you goodbye. 
Even if you break your legs to please a player, it only gives him the courage to conquer more vagina and celebrate his conquest. 
You missed it when you started offering the services he never demanded for all because you wanted to prove that you can beat him in his game. Painfully when the lizard and the water swims into the stream, the lizard tells a better story than the rat and that is why you should never compete with any player because in most cases it doesn't favour you. 
While I read your mail I was asking myself where you threw your self esteem and worth because I can't really understand why you chose to torture yourself emotionally and psychologically just to get a man who has no iota of respect for you and your emotions nor does he have any future plans with you. 
Why do you want to hang out with a man who doesn't improve your life spiritually, emotionally, psychologically and physically? 
Is that what you call loving for love? God never created you to be a casualty of public abuse and ridicule in the name of love. 
Just have this at the back of your mind that no matter what you do or say to have him in your life, if his mind is never with you, he can never be there for you nor will he have any reason to commit himself to you. 
Please surrender your life to God and seek for his healing grace and mercies. 
Ask him to forgive you for thinking that you could fix your husband with your hands and use your body to keep him. 
Promise him that no penis shall pass through your pant until your wedding night and invite him to perfect all that concerns you. 
You have to make the decision to do what is right and surrender to God's authority if you desire to see him restore the true beauty of your heart and help you find happiness in life. 
Let go of the temporary pleasure that you feel is worth your destiny and develop yourself spiritually,emotionally and financially to meet your needs and be able to make impact in our generation. 
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding but allow him to perfect that which concerns you and you will be glad you did. 


  1. My dear, u're not in love with him, u're filled with infatuation and lust for him. He has enjoyed all what he wanted from you and is searching for a new challenge.

    Truth be told, you can't blame him cos you knew the kind of person he was, but still went ahead to give urself to him.

  2. My dear, there is nothing for you in that relationship. Move on

  3. My dear,he has taken advantage of your naivity and doesn't cherish you any longer.He has been a player and he knew that you know he is a player and he will continue to be until he grows up.Please dust yourself, forget about him and look for something constructive to do to better your future;and if you are student,think of how to graduate with a good grade to better your chances of getting a good job in this our tight economical situation.Always be positive minded and appreciate the goodness of God in you and put God first in everything you want to do,you are doing and had already done.I wish your the best.

  4. In this time and age, some girls are still this foolish! SMH

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  6. I am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for over 9 years and we had two kids. thing were going well with us and we where always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treated me and the kids. later that month he did not come back home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted traditional spell hospital for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he casted on him that make him come back to me. my family and i are now happy again. Thank you Dr. Aluta for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay. He cast spells for different purposes

  7. Truth only sets free
    Remember who your Creator is and why he made you. The only reason people can't let go is not because of love, but because they think they've invested much into a relationship. Find yourself, find your life purpose. Life is too precious to be wasted. Have a nice one.


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