Friday, November 27, 2015

He Threatens to go Outside for Sex!

This may sound funny, but it happens and it is happening to someone right now.
A LADY GAVE BIRTH TO A SET OF TWINS, FOUR WEEKS LATER, HER HUSBAND BEGAN TO MAKE SEXUAL ADVANCES AT HER, SHE DEMANDED FOR THE USE OF PROTECTION BUT HE REFUSED. NOW THERE IS A BIG COMMUNICATION GAP BETWEEN THEM, THE MAN IS CLAIMING THAT SHE IS STARVING HIM OF SEX AND THEREFORE, IS GOING OUTSIDE TO GET IT. THE LADY SEEM TO BE UNDER PRESSURE, SHE DOES NOT WANT TO LOOSE HER MARRIAGE. THE PRESENT BIRTH OCCOURD IN SIMILAR MANNER, JUST EIGHT MONTHS GAP BETWEEN THE FIRST CHILD AND SHE TOOK IN THE TWIN. SHE NOW SEEK ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO HANDLE THIS SITUATION, SO THAT SHE WONT LOSE HER HUSBAND AND NOT BE SEEN AS STARVING HER HUSBAND. Please help with advise my friend is in need of it. Thanks ma


My dear, 
No issues of the married is funny so I'm aware that many wives are suffering from this same challenge as some men desire the skin to skin feel of love making and at the same time punishing their wife by not giving them space to heal and recover before another pregnancy. 
She needs to contact her gynaecologist or family doctor so that she and her husband can be properly advised on the best contraceptive for her and avoid the pressure of getting pregnant while nursing her baby. 
Her husband needs to be educated not to kill his wife in the name of sex or pressurising her by giving her hopeless threats. 
She needs his support and encouragement to cater for the twins and not to crush her with sex. 
Please encourage her to consult her doctors as soon as possible to avoid losing concentration on her babies. 

7 comments:

  1. Look beyond this story and you'll see a marriage devoid of love, affection and understanding...
    This story clearly shows the state of affairs in this marriage..
    It clearly shows that this couple are just two strangers living together but not actually married..
    I think this marriage needs to be reviewed and not just this singular problem...

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    1. How do you know, just from this background information provided? Both parties have solid point of views, hence it's a marital issue.

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    2. How do you know, just from this background information provided? Both parties have solid point of views, hence it's a marital issue.

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  3. There's birth control pills and loop. Try it. Your doctor can advise on the best option

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  4. There's birth control pills and loop. Try it. Your doctor can advise on the best option

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