Thursday, December 31, 2015

He Releases on Time!

Good morning Aunty Amara, Compliments of the season.
I am a 27 year old virgin. I am not a saint but I just decided to remain a virgin till I get married.
I'm engaged already and my introduction is next month. I love my fiancé he's very caring and humble but the issue I have is that he "releases" on time. Please don't get me wrong, we have never had sex but we do kiss and before I know what is happening, he would have "released' and the moment he does that, that's the end, everything just goes down.
I'm really worried about this, I have told him my worries and he said it's his sugar intake, he has stopped taking soft drinks and also been taking some herbs but no difference. I'm really worried because I know sex is very important in marriage and I wouldn't want my marriage to end because of this. Please is there anything that can be done about this before I marry him?


I know what you are worried about but it's not beyond remedy. It could be as a result of over excitement or the sugar in take just like he spotted. That could be a sign of quick ejaculation but it doesn't mean that you cannot conceive but maybe you may not be able to enjoy sexual intimacy with him because before the tip of his penis hits your vagina, the sperm is already spilled all over your body.
There is both medical and psychological intervention for that. You need to let him know that you are here forever for him. Allow him to relax and help him to relax by whispering words of love and affection to him. Let him know that pretty soon he will start the drilling operation and that you hope to give him the world of Sexual fantasies to his satisfaction.
Medically let him begin with the food he consumes. He should minimise the consumption of food that contains carbohydrates like rice, yam, potatoes and the likes,and replace them with proteins, vegetables fruits and roughages.
Then he should take spices like onions, garlic, ginger, pumpkin seed and walnut amongst others.
I'm not necessarily an advocate of herbs but I encourage healthy living and eating lifestyle.
If he consumes alcohols, perhaps this is a warning signals for him to desist from that.
Finally he can visit an urologist to examine his penis and find out if there are any abnormalities or deformity or infections in his penis so that you and him can have a better understanding of what he may be experiencing. This is also the best time for him to know his Sperm count and sperm motility so that you can be rest assured that he's sexually healthy.
This is the best time to support him and encourage him to be stable and not feel depressed as a result of the way his penis responds to kissing experience.

3 comments:

  1. "Let him know that pretty soon he will start the drilling operation"

    Chai! That kind of talk will only worsen the man's problem

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  2. Let him take vegrx plus tablet it available in most phymercy store. It will solve his problem. Google it for yourself. He will 1 table 2 times daily for as long as he sees an improvement which is a sure

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  3. Let him take vegrx plus tablet it available in most phymercy store. It will solve his problem. Google it for yourself. He will 1 table 2 times daily for as long as he sees an improvement which is a sure

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