Wednesday, December 2, 2015

My Husband Paints Me Black to His Family!

Please I need advice. My husband is always telling his brothers and sisters any little problem we have as husband and wife.
And the problem is that he doesn't say it exactly how it happened. And it has caused serious enmity between me and them that they don't call me and even when I call them, they will ignore my calls. Should I stop calling them?

Dear ,
Because you don't owe anyone explanations for being married to their brother,
all you can do is respect them for who they are. You don't need to discuss your privacy with them or even give a thought to whatever your husband wishes to tell them (this is the shortcomings of marrying a baby boy who is still breastfeeding).
On your own part, when you call and they don't pick up, kindly send a message to them and appreciate them and also deliver your message to them.
But don't interpret their attitude or allow their silence to affect your state of mind or your marriage.
In your bedroom please sit your husband and talk to him about the way he exposes the privacy of your home because someday he will be the one to regret his decision when they would have published his family to the world.
No matter what the misunderstandings or mistakes or shortcomings maybe, with communication and patience it can be sorted out without involving families or gossiping to friends.
Let's hope that he will take the necessary corrections and learn how to communicate with you without bringing you down in the presence of his relatives and friends.

1 comment:

  1. Dear,if after talking to him he does listen,and change(I doubt if he will),look for a wise elderly person(preferably,a man) that he respects,and report him to the man,who will then talk some sense into him. That's why it is always advisable to marry someone who has wise authority figures over their lives that they are WILLINGLY accountable to,and that can always call them to order if they ever try to misbehave. #qdDOWNLOAD
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