Friday, December 18, 2015

The Sight of Penetrative Sex Bores Me!

Good morning Mrs Amara Van Lare. I am in my thirties, single and hoping to marry too/soon. Please, do not see this question as stupid and childish.
My friends who were sexually active said, sex can go as long as three straight hours. I did not believe them and they looked at me as if I was stupid and don't know anything.
I know lovemaking can take time, but penetration and thrusting is about seven minutes,but my friends said it can take as long as thirty minutes. I am not into porn because it looks too fake and boring, except its just touching alone. NOTE: Let me say a little about myself. I have not had sex or any kind of intimate thing with a man before. Though I am not altogether innocent.
You see aunt Amara , I have done things with girls before. God is really helping me there. It's not easy for me because mine was not a habit I picked anywhere, but I grew up and discovered that I was attracted to ladies. Like I said, heaven has been helping me. I just wished the feeling will completely go away instead of throwing my face away when a fine girl passes or struggling not to touch my friend when she visits.
I have fallen in love with guys too. The sight of penetrative sex bores me


I appreciate your honesty but you see, if God wanted ladies to sleep with ladies, I'm pretty sure that he would add it to the routine of sexual intimacy amongst ladies and come to think of it, no matter what ladies do with each other or men do with themselves, it cannot result into any positive fulfilment or any pregnancy simply because God is never part of strange attractions and this made him curse any who indulges in such act. 
Sometimes we may not have any genuine excuse to give up on a sin or an addiction but even if it be for the fact that God detests such act, it's enough a reason for anyone who desires to enjoy the benefits of obeying God and walking in God's wisdom. 
The reason why penetrative sex may bore you is because you love the kissing, touching and the fantasy of a standing boobs and supple skin. 
When you are in the protective arms of your husband and simply watch as he devours your skin and unleashes the pleasure spot behind every hair in your skin. 
When you watch him fondle your bosom with his masculine tenderness while giving you a head. When you look at how he groans with great pleasure and releases his sperm with all fulfilment just as your vagina responds with blushing skin and savoury wetness, you will really appreciate the beauty of making love with your husband. 
I guess because you haven't experienced it, you decided to take solace in touching your female friends but the truth is that making love with your husband is non comparable with what lesbians and gays experience together. 
If anyone tell you that a man can have sex for thirty minutes to three hours in one round, kindly inform the person that I said that such an individual is under the influence of a drug. 
Sexual intimacy begins with the non verbal and verbal communication between couples and proceeds to touching kissing, caressing, fondling and awakening the temple of your body before penetrative intimacy which is basically the insertion of the erect penis into the wet and beautiful vagina. 
It could last from thirty minutes to one hour depending on how much foreplay the partners invested before the penetrative sex. However any man who goes up to three hours of a penetrative sex will be setting himself up for a medical emergency. 
That being said, I want to encourage you specially to get your mind engaged in productive ventures like bead making, sowing, make up artiste,and baking depending on what you have passion for. 
Always remember that the body of a lady is first the temple of God and the property of her husband and please do not relent in praying that God will deliver you from the spirit of lesbian because until you are delivered wholly and totally, you won't recognise your husband should he come around you. 
I believe that by January next year, you won't have any feelings for any lady for any reason. I am already praying for you. 

5 comments:

  1. Aunty Amara you nailed it. Very nice advice. The truth is that it is not easy for one to open up about some addiction. The first step of one stopping addiction is confiding in someone you trust. It is hard but with prayer and self determination you will break free from lesbianism

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  2. Dear poster...
    I bind every spirit of "Woman -do- Woman" from your life in Jesus name...Amen

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  3. "The reason why penetrative sex may bore you is because you love the kissing, touching and the fantasy of a standing boobs and supple skin.
    When you are in the protective arms of your husband and simply watch as he devours your skin and unleashes the pleasure spot behind every hair in your skin.
    When you watch him fondle your bosom with his masculine tenderness while giving you a head. When you look at how he groans with great pleasure and releases his sperm with all fulfilment just as your vagina responds with blushing skin and savoury wetness, you will really appreciate the beauty of making love with your husband."
    The above extract was my best part. The thought that came through my mind was "AVL, you too sabi! Or is it you sabi write imaginatively". Good advice to the lady.

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  4. Thanks Aunty Amara for these kind and beautiful advice to this lady. It is my earnest prayer that God see her through.

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  5. I AM CLOSING IN ON 30 YEARS OF AGE, AND AM SINGLE AM A LADY. AT SOME POINT IN MY LIFE I GOT INVOLED IN LESBIANISM IT LASTED A YEAR MAX TWO YEARS BUT BY GODS GRACE RE TRACED MY STEPS DID SOME PRAYER SESSION KEPT PRAYING TO GOD. ITS BEEN SEVEN YEARS AND COUNTING AND GOD HAS SO HELPED ME NOT TO GO BACK. THOUGH ABOUT TWO YEARS BACK A FRIEND( FEMALE MARRIED) I HAVE KNOWN IN THE CHURCH SUDDENLY STATRED DISTURBING I GAVE HER THE WARNING OF HER LIFE SHE STILL TRIES BUT GOD HAS BEEN FAITHFUL AND HAS KEPT ME GOING. HERES THE DEAL, WHAT CAUGHT MY ATTENTION, YOU MADE A COMMENT "Always remember that the body of a lady is first the temple of God and the property of her husband and please do not relent in praying that God will deliver you from the spirit of lesbian because until you are delivered wholly and totally, you won't recognise your husband should he come around you". ALL THROUGH THE PERIOD THAT I KNOW I HAVE BE COME OF AGE TO HANDLE/ BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX. NONE HAS WORKED OUT. WHEN I SAW YOU COMMENT I WAS TEMPTED TO THINK. MAYBE IN THOSE LAST SEVEN YEARS GOD HAS NOT FORGIVEN ME( WHOLLY AND TOTALLY) MAYBE THAT WHY I HAVE NOT RECOGNISED MY HUSBAND YET.

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