Thursday, February 18, 2016

His Penis in my Anus?

Good day ma, please help me with this issue. My husband of seven years now surprised me this morning, when we were making love, he start touching my anus, before I knew it he started fingering, I wasn't comfortable but just kept quiet. Ma he brought out his penis from my vagina to my anus. I told him not to try it and he said am I not his wife, that he is free to do as he wish...
I turned off immediately, he tried to get me again which did not happen, I left him quietly to prepare children to school, unlike him he could not come out to see his children before they left to school. Before I came back from school run, he has finished all the house work in the house.
When I asked him what led him to that kind of dirty life, he said I am accusing him that he only felt free to enjoy his wife, but I did not accept that cos he used to preach against it and there is this guy that used to send him lady's pictures telling him the sweetest among them which I have warned him against it and he denied every.
Truly we have been having ups and down in the marriage and I have endured a lot. In fact God is answering my prayers gradually touching his life that he is out of some friends and stopped late nights, he cares for me now than before and he is always cautious of anything that might bring problem between us.
Though each time I remember the way he treated me before, my anger for him arises again, the last thing he will do is to say sorry instead he will buy something for me and I will be the one to thank him. I am a true fan of this page and this is not my first time of writing here.
May God bless us all in helping worn out souls. Aunty Amara I don't know what to say but your blessings is from ABOVE... As you work for other families, God and His angels work for your own family. Remain blessed.

I guess someone or something woke up the wild fantasies in him which made him to consider anal sex. 
You need to sit him down and talk about anal sex in details so that whether you are awake or sleeping, he wouldn't consider it in his wildest dreams. 
God never designed the anus for sex because the anus doesn't lubricate itself unlike the vagina, the anus doesn't cleanse itself unlike the vagina, and the most important reason why anal sex is very very dangerous to the health of the lady is that the anus contains the sphincter which is a ring of muscle that surrounds an opening in the body and can contract to close it. 
If for any reason, the sphincter of the anus is damaged as a result of the pressure or the impact of sexual intercourse through the anus, the consequences of that is that the lady will have no control over her bowel moment because the anus will become an open door. 
There is a need to sensitize him on that please because as much as he wishes to enjoy his wife, he should also have the interest of his wife's health at heart while having sex. 
If he wishes to massage your anus or to even lick them, he's free to do so but penis should be for vagina and not the anus. The risks associated with it is more than the fun he will derive from it. 
Instead of looking for a tight spot to have sex, both of you could try different positions, spice up your foreplay and make your sexual intercourse a spectacular one by tweaking your positions and enhancing your involvement in the process. 
You don't wait until he has finished pounding your anus before warning him, immediately you realise that his penis is inside your anus, simply grab it and massage it after which you will remind him that your vagina isn't in that location. 
You can do this with all the fun and sexy manner in a way that it won't cut the flow of the sexual anointing. 
Try positions that will keep you in charge of the sexual intimacy and also give you maximum pleasure while you watch him moan like the hero of your kingdom.
Well thank God that your marriage is becoming better by the day and I will encourage you not to relent in your prayers and support for your husband. 

10 comments:

  1. Chaiii. Amara this picture you used ehhh, hmmm, there is God ohh

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  2. Hahahahahaha the pic for this post is something else. I can't stop laughing 😆 😆 😆

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  3. Well we thank our wonderful God that He will continue to do a greater things in our lives.Thankyou you Jehovah Sweet Jesus You are great in our homes.Hallelujah.

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