Tuesday, February 2, 2016

I've Decided to End the Relationship!

Good evening ma, permit me to commend your distinct wisdom and charisma with which you continue to apply in bringing succors to people in states of hopelessness. I am an ardent follower of your page, I must confess you are championing a great course that is capable to reinvigorate moral value of our system. Please I need your personal advice on what to do concerning this very issue.
I started dating this girl on February 2015, at the inception of the affairs, I stated it clear to her that I need an open and transparent affair. In other words, I will not hide anything to her and she will not hide anything to me both phones. We kept to that but along the line I discovered she was double dating including a married man, I talked to her about my findings and she admitted and promised to change. She did not change, I decided to end the relationship this February if she comes back because she travelled where her parents reside in Ebonyi state.
My two main reason of planning to end the relationship were double dating and sex, I have made up my mind to stop engaging in pre-marital sex to enable me become close to my God because whenever am prayerful God speak to me directly before anything happen to me whether good or bad things. I have talked to her in the past about having sex but she refused to accept my decision for us to abstain.
She sent a text message to me today that she needed some money, that her dad and sister were sick and she doubt if her mother will be able to give her #60,000.00 needed to pay her school fees. I responded to her and told her that am bereft of money now and will not be able to assist her. She sent a second text message that all I know is to have sex with her that she can’t allow this my child to grow in her no matter what.
Aunt Amara, I am the kind who despises pride. I have done a lot for this girl to the best of my knowledge and financial capabilities, where she is living currently a room self contain, I paid for it willingly. I wouldn’t want to mention all I have done for her in this forum because I believe in giving out because givers never lack but am having some setbacks.
I am suspecting she is pregnant; she might be planning to terminate the baby. I am vehemently against abortion despite the circumstances. I called her to have a word with her to ascertain if she is pregnant or not, she told me to forget it. I am very confused because she did not tell me clearly that she was pregnant.
I understand clearly the consequences of abortion; my immediate elder brother is childless for seven years after marriage because of his singular act of abortion she committed with his wife when they were dating, I wouldn't want to walk on the same road again like him by supporting abortion. I will stand by her if she is pregnant instead of pushing her to abort the baby.

Before you decide on the fate of the relationship, encourage her to come back, then take her to the hospital for a pregnancy test.
The outcome of the test will determine whether to continue with her or agree with her on how best to date without sex.
It's advisable for you not to push her away because of her disagreement to your non sexual relationship not it's not the right thing to do but because your relationship was set on that foundation and you need to help her understand why both of you need to put sex out of your relationship.
You don't need to impress anyone when you do not have. Simply be firm and resolute and allow her to come back so that you can discuss with her and sort out your differences.
If she's pregnant, simply enrol her in an antenatal care and support her in anyway you can. Abortion is never an option and for the fact that she's pregnant doesn't mean that you must get married to her.
A lady who double dates and has no regards for the married surely is a lady of low virtue.
Do not let pregnancy pranks make you to marry a lady that will make you miserable in life. Be focused and amend your ways so that you don't make a decision that you will regret later in life.


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