Thursday, February 18, 2016

Understanding Marriage

If you want to live and act as you like without being accountable to anyone, make sure you stay off marriage. If you want to be answerable to no one because you are an adult, stay off marriage. If you decide to be married, you will lose that. If you want to live and act as you like without being accountable to anyone, make sure you stay off marriage. If you want to be answerable to no one because you are an adult, stay off marriage.
Man or woman, if you decide to be married, you will lose that independence and you will be answerable to your spouse. Like Steve Harvey said, he loved his hats and long suits until his wife, Majorie, asked him to stop. Thank God he listened instead of seeing her as just a woman who knows nothing and shouldnt tell him what to do. That simple obedience changed everything about Steve Harvey.
The very moment you accept marriage, you cease to live for you alone. It stops being 'I' or 'Me'; it becomes 'Us' or 'We'. Yes, you don't lost your individuality, but you must consider the impact of your actions on your spouse and how that person feels about them.
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"Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God" -Ephesians 5:21. Mind you; "...in the fear of God". If that thing isn't pleasing unto God, don't try to please man at God's expense because He will turn His back on you when you start reaping the fruits of your labour.
Submit yourself to your spouse in the fear of God. Sir, if your wife wants you to wear a brown shirt and you ignore her to wear a green because your friends admire the green, you are disobeying God's word. You belong to her!
Madam, if your husband likes your nail natural and you decide to fix the long false nails because of your friends, you are disobeying God's word. I am not too used to hair extensions, I love my Afro hair; I love waking up and pouring water on my hair everyday. But my husband likes some hairstyles on me. What do I do? I find a way to satisfy him while I, occasionally, enjoy my afro. You know what I'm talking about.
As long as that desire is not against God's word; as long as it doesn't make you a slave or a wild animal, please satisfy your spouse. After God, he or she is next.
May the Lord help us to bring back the lost glory of marriage. May the Lord help us to understand better the mystery of marriage. May He help us to begin to see marriage as a covenant instead of a contract. May we find the grace to stop loving the way of the world. 
If only you can see what life becomes when two hearts are truly one, one indeed and not in words only.

3 comments:

  1. Amen!
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