Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Am Depressed and Unhappy in my Marriage!

Good morning Amara, you are indeed God's sent. I was engaged to a lady and my family disapproved the relationship. For four years, My dad and mum were not yielding to my request because some men of God told them that the lady is not my wife. I met the parents of the lady with my other relatives but her brother insisted that my dad should be the one to come. I now met the lady for us to do court wedding or other things that will facilitate our marriage and she requested that I must make peace with my family.
Out of annoyance, I succumbed to the girl my family approved and now I can't cope with the marriage because my mind is not there. Presently, I am depressed and unhappy in my present state. It is now that my parents want the former lady saying that they were charmed. Please advice me because I am dying....

Please do not die yet, your marriage can work out if you learn to take the responsibility for your decision and choice as an individual. Granted that your parents made their opinions known to you, deciding to accept their choice of partner was your decision and not that of anyone.
Though you didn't say exactly why you feel that you cannot cope with your wife so that it can be addressed but you must realise that you are married and marriage is sacred to God which you cannot jump out just because your parents feel that they made a wrong choice for you.
The most painful part is that you allowed them to experiment with your life and since you permitted it in the beginning, please prepare your heart and accept your decision and choose within your heart to give your best in your marriage instead of running away from your marriage and your home.
I feel that you have experimented enough with your parents and should decide to stand out and live for yourself and your family.
Let's work on fixing your marriage and not changing your wife because you have no idea what the weaknesses of the other lady is like.

1 comment:

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