Thursday, March 24, 2016

My Wife Starves me of Sex!

Good day madam, I have be reading your page for some time now. I just need your advice.
Am married for three years now with a baby girl and since my wife gave birth, my marriage has never be the same. Well let me say I dated my wife for six years before I got married to her but during our dating sex was the problem, anytime I want her she will tell me that I have not paid her bride price that when we are married I can have her for the whole day but some time during dating we still had sex.
She took-in the night I did her traditional wedding, and after she gave birth it has be hell for me. She doesn't even give me sex and her main aim is her work. Anytime I ask for it she will tell me she is tired, I even tried to talk to her and she told me she doesn't like sex and even when she told me that she will be giving me sex twice a week she can't keep to it.
If I tell her I want her, she will give me one excuse to another, sometimes I take it without her will. Even to cook for me is a problem up to the extent that I buy food outside. When she hears the word sex, is like boko haram is coming to bomb her home.
Seriously am really tired of the marriage, I don't even feel anything for her anymore. This has be going on since two years now. Please I need your advice.


I perfectly understand your struggles and the sexual difficulties you are experiencing in your marriage and I must commend you for your patience and understanding for the past two years of your marriage. 
One thing you must have at the back of your mind is that she may not be denying you of sexual intimacy deliberately but it could be as a result of her emotional, and psychological disposition to sex that is affecting her approach to sex and marriage in general.
It could be that she's yet to loosen up her mind and embrace the beauty of sex as a result of the training and the negative perceptions that she received about sex. It could also be that she was circumcised and as a result may not desire sexual intimacy as those who are not circumcised will crave for it. It could also be that she experiences pains and psychological torture whenever she's having sexual intimacy with you and that may have sent wrong signals to her brain which in turn may have made her to hate sexual intimacy. 
I may not be able to assist you without having a heart to heart discussion with your wife to find out why she is deliberately pushing you to the wall and starving you of sex. 
So to help me figure out what signals she maybe sending with her attitude, I would suggest that you encourage her to write to me here so that I can discuss this in details with her and understand some of her fears, perceptions, worries and concerns about sex and her attitude to you. 
This will then help me to give you tips on how you can enjoy sex with your wife. Please do not relent or give up on her, with patience and understanding from you, I'm certain that you will create the kind of woman that you crave for and enjoy your moments with her. 
So I look forward to your feedback and also for the avenue to talk with your wife if you are comfortable with the idea.

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