Wednesday, May 4, 2016

He Wants to Rape my Sister!

God bless you ma for all your good deeds. Ma I need advice urgently before something happens. Am in my early 30's and my husband early 40 's. I cursed the day I accepted this man for anything because he is a chronic he-goat. I have caught him with nothing less than fifteen different girls and including married women which our neighbour's wife is included.
Some he will say he is sorry and some he will say it's his money he is spending not mine. He later called me that he wants to stop cheating and be a good man which I was happy to hear and we started living fine, only for me to find out that he has a bigger plan.
Aunty Amara my so called husband of 40+ years wants to rape my sister of 12 years, is he not a dog? Someone I used to have sex with almost every two or three days and he will testify that am doing very well. I give him every style I have practiced both on net and otherwise. As I write now my sis(our maid)is packing her bag because if I leave her here, my husband will impregnate her. I go to work by 7am, am afraid he can even rape her in the morning before she goes to school.
Aunty you people should help me please it's very urgent.


For the sake of your maid, please make sure that you keep a close watch on her and if possible, sleep with her to avoid some hopeless news. 
The best way out is to send her back home and support her financially so that you can face your husband and decide how best to manage his weaknesses. 
A man who doesn't have any regards for your emotions, haven't thought of the vulnerable infections that he may contract and have slept with over fifteen girls is no longer a human being but a possessed man who is battling against the devil. 
It is not really ordinary and I will not encourage you to let anyone else know of this terrible battle except God, unless you are no longer willing to fight this battle against his life. 
Your husband needs to be pitied and genuinely prayed for because he's on the verge of self destruction and he may feel that it's normal for him. 
When you must have sent your sister back home, you can sit down and ask him what is going on in his life and why he's bent on destroying your marriage. Ask him why he want to destroy himself and drag your name in the mud. 
If he's willing to go for counselling, please consider booking a schedule for a counselling session so that both of you can talk to the counsellor and map out ways to rehabilitate his mind and help him manage his promiscuity.
In your closet, fast, pray and continue to encourage him in your own little way. He's not beyond God's mercies and redemptive power of God, and I believe that God will someday rescue him and restore him from this addiction. 
Let's hope that he's also not into drugs because that will mean that he may end up destroying his own life. When making love to your husband, please be careful and protect yourself against sexually transmitted diseases and infections.
I am deeply sorry for the pains and the humiliation that your husband has put you through and I pray and hope that God will intervene where your strength is limited and show you mercies in your marriage. 
If after you have given your all you cannot continue with him, you find yourself slipping into depression and low self esteem, please return back home with your children so that you and your husband can work out the future of your marriage and plan on ways to help him. 
Separation is not the same thing with divorce and it's psychologically and emotionally healthy to separate when you feel choked, depressed and unable to give your best in your marriage as a result of some irreconcilable differences and changes in your marriage. 
If you lose your life trying to keep your children (God forbid) your children will work twice as hard to find their feet in their endeavours so please don't sacrifice your life when your heart is full of pains and agony. 
I pray for the grace, the wisdom and the patience to pray and stand by him in this critical point of your marriage and trust God to restore your husband back to you.

2 comments:

  1. Well said Amara, the is really possessed by the spirit of whoredom. it cause one to be filled with sexual desires and perversion. His mind need to be renew with things that are pure, holy, just, right and clean through counselling, reading and constant listening of messages until all those immoral images and pictures in his mind is completely purged out that is when he will be healed. Without his mind being renewed, he cannot be transformed but will keep be controlled by those spirits that push him to have sex. Hebrew 4:12" the word of God is quick and powerful, and sharper than any two edge sword, piercing even diving asunder of soul and spirit, diving asunder of soul and spirit means total separation of your soul from any thing be it emotional or spiritual. if he truly needs healing, he need to meditate on Gods word which is pure and holy and truth. He should stop porn and dirty thing. Keep praying for him and if possible separate yourself from him, he will comeback to his senses. what is happening to him is not ordinary and it needs time and hard work from your to be healed

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