Thursday, May 5, 2016

Is He Stingy or Selfish?

Good morning my wonderful Aunty! Thanks for giving solutions to my problems.... You are the best friend I could ever think of. Please I need your advice on this...
I have a guy that gives me the exact amount I used on my transport fare each time I visit, the exact amount that will take me home or lesser amount, a times that will even need my adding the little I have to pay my way back..
Aunty please is this guy selfish or is he trying to tempt me?...From my place to where we sit out is normally #200 i.e to and fro, a times he gives me #100 claiming he doesn't have change... The guy in question is well to do, operating his own business, sometimes he even feels reluctant to see me off and this has been happening for quite sometime now and our relationship is operating on 'no sex' till marriage ..
Aunty please what should I do? Should I quit the relationship?? Is he stingy?? Since I knew him he has given me nothing apart from the junk food we eat together, the relationship is getting to seven months.
Aunty please help a dying soul.


Well, the junk food that you eat didn't fall from heaven but someone paid for it which I feel that you should be grateful for.
It's obvious that he's tolerating you and he doesn't seem to be so much in love with you. I mean who gives a lady #100 for transport and still claim to be in love with her?
What I suggest is that you encourage him to visit you so that you can host him in your own area, buy him a junk food or perhaps prepare a delicious meal for him, then give him some transport for him to return back. I'm certain that doing so will send a good message to him and he may learn from that never to treat you like a left over.
But whether he's stingy or selfish, the handwriting is clear for you to see and it's left for you to decide whether he's the best for you or you need a friend, a man who genuinely cares about your happiness and wouldn't embarrass himself by treating you like a toy.

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