Tuesday, May 10, 2016

My Boyfriend Broke up with Me!

Hello Ma, God bless you for the impact you making in so many lives, relationships and marriages. Please I need you to talk to me ma, need some words of knowledge and advice from you... Am 26 years old, have been dating this guy for seven months now... We started late last year until we broke up few days ago...
Before the break up which appeared like a shock to me, we were planning and preparing towards marriage. We have agreed to marry each other and live as partners... Before the relationship started, I made him know my stand that no sex and he agreed.. It was a distance relationship and he had visited me here twice....
In his first visit after some persuasion, we had romance but no intercourse cos I refused.. His family was fully aware and mine too of our intentions... This guy doesn't do anything for me financially.. He kept promising things will be better and so on.... Sometimes he will slow the communication between us and later it will be fine again....
Now the main thing is that he visited last month and we were together, we had romance again and no intercourse, I noticed he was not satisfied with just the romance but wanted real sex, but he sounded like he needed to come and do all necessary things so that he will take me as wife cos we can't continue like this, no sex etc... We agreed that his next coming will be to come see my family formally and all that, he was supposed to give me some money for some things we agreed that I needed but he did not, said he will send it before he travels back to his base..... He told me also that I should not worry about the ring cos it's just a symbol and he does not want me to wear it for long till when time gets closer, that the most important is that we have agreed to marry.
Then he left to see his parents. He was staying too long there to go back to his base as planned but when I asked, he will say he will leave soon, he just wanted to settle family issues..... I called him one day cos I have not heard from him and his number was switched off... I chatted him on WhatsApp, told him his number was switched off only for him to give me another number I can use to reach him... It was an international number.... He told me he has travelled out of the country, he just arrived as at the time we were chatting and he is sorry to inform me that relationship is over and we need to go our separate ways.. Am not the woman he sees in his future....
Ma, it was a SHOCK cos the last time we saw and when he travelled out was three weeks, never knew he has been planning to leave this country since I have been dating him.... It happened under my nose..... I love him.... This is a guy that have been asking me out for many years ago until we lost contact... But then I was tender until last year I gave him the chance.... And he told me how he had beg God to keep me for him and bring us together.... But see what has happened...... Please your advice... Am trying to forget about him and move on


Now take me serious here. Go to the market (depending on your place of worship), buy thanksgiving items, something that you can afford and go for a thanksgiving offering, to thank God for saving you from a disastrous relationship and an unwanted pregnancy.
You played with fire and God rescued you and you're here trying to forget him when you could have zoomed off and wiped off everything about him.
That guy might be in Aba calling you with one of those prank lines and you're getting worried?
He was only talking about marriage because he wanted to have a feel of your vagina which you never permitted, if you ever did, well I would have been encouraging you to keep the baby and prepare for motherhood because he would have still "travelled" and tell you how he never saw his wife in you.
Wake up, it's thanksgiving day, go and thank God because you have no idea what God did for you.
When your husband meets you, you won't need all these explanations and drama to bring him home. Don't be in a hurry, God is not done with you and he will give you your husband in no distant future.

4 comments:

  1. Amara good morning. You make me laugh with the way you started your advice, going to the market to buy thanksgiving items, but of a truth you are right, it is thanksgiving time cos obviously there was never an atom of love from that young man other than a quest for sex. Move on my sister and your joy should be the fact that he never crossed your thigh cos you would have been much more devastated than this.

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  2. You weren't meant 2 be, your husband will locate you

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  4. My life became devastated when my husband sent me packing, after 8 years that we have been together. I was lost and helpless after trying so many ways to make my husband take me back. One day at work, i was absent minded not knowing that my boss was calling me, so he sat and asked me what its was all about i told him and he smiled and said that it was not a problem. I never understand what he meant by it wasn't a problem getting my husband back, he said he used a spell to get his wife back when she left him for another man and now they are together till date and at first i was shocked hearing such thing from my boss. He gave me an email address of the great spell caster who helped him get his wife back, i never believed this would work but i had no choice that to get in contact with the spell caster which i did, and he requested for my information and that of my husband to enable him cast the spell and i sent him the details, but after two days, my mom called me that my husband came pleading that he wants me back, i never believed it because it was just like a dream and i had to rush down to my mothers place and to my greatest surprise, my husband was kneeling before me pleading for forgiveness that he wants me and the kid back home, then i gave Happy a call regarding sudden change of my husband and he made it clear to me that my husband will love me till the end of the world, that he will never leave my sight. Now me and my husband is back together again and has started doing pleasant things he hasn't done before, he makes me happy and do what he is suppose to do as a man without nagging. Please if you need help of any kind, kindly contact Happy for help and you can reach him via email: happylovespell2@gmail.com

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