Tuesday, May 10, 2016

My Heart Bleeds!

Am 25 years dating a guy of 28, he is from Imo while am from Enugu, It all started since last year November 2015 when he sent one guy to convince me that he wants to marry me that he loves me, but I didn't take it serious then cause I was still studying his character....... So in April this year, I decided to gave him a chance that was on first week of April, the day I accepted him I told him no sex and he accepted it cause he loves me and I knew it and I love him so much more than I had ever thought of.........
The relationship was going on smoothly, fine and romantic until on 30th April when he gave me N50 000 to complete my school fees which I thanked him a lot so on 3rd of May (Tuesday morning), I got a text from him saying that he met a girl on Sunday and slept with her on Monday night (she passed a night in his place). When I got the text, I thought he was joking , I called him for us to see later in the day which happened and he told me to my own very face that it's true that I didn't value what I had, that he now loves her more than me, values her more than me saying the girl trusted him so easily which pushed him to make a promise to the girl that he will never leave her nor hurt her and while saying those dirty words to me he was not man enough to look me on the face with boldness, all I can feel in him was shyness ...........
Since then he hasn't called me let alone apologising to me for hurting me so bad. Yes so many people said I had nothing to lose cause he gave me N50 000 without touching me but they don't understand cause I now realize how much I love him, how much I miss him so badly.
Each time I remembers those words he used on me, I cry till I sleep off. Each time I remembers that he now gives the girl attention, my mind jumps. Please help me, I don't want to develop high blood pressure, I can't get him off my mind , I don't know if I should fight for him...
Please help me out my heart is bleeding .............


Call him and schedule a date with him, find out what exactly he want and why he feels that the other lady trusted him more than you do. He was only sex starved and the other lady was the answer that he craved for, whether that's enough to conclude that he loves her more is what I cannot decipher.
What I can do from this end is to have a word or two with him if he's comfortable with that so that we can separate sex from love and help him understand the difference between the two.
On your own part, I don't feel that you should be discouraged or frustrated because another lady gave him sex, any lady can give a man sex when he's sexually frustrated but when it comes to marriage, men separate sex from a partner that will give them the peace of mind and fulfilment in life.
Encourage him to write to me here. Thank you.

15 comments:

  1. I don't think he slept with anyone, I think he deliberately told you that to hurt you,so you can give in to sex because you wouldn't want to loose him. But if reverse is the case and he indeed slept with someone then take a walk. What do you need a man that equates sex to love for?

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    1. My thoughts exactly.
      This guy slept with no one. Nne relax and watch him.
      He wants u to jump into his arms and offer him sex.

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    2. My thoughts exactly.
      This guy slept with no one. Nne relax and watch him.
      He wants u to jump into his arms and offer him sex.

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  4. @Nkem-abi oooooo .
    I tire for small girls and their reasoning pattern.
    Moreover, if you're to equate it like he did, nah you gain pass.he wants sex in exchange but you gat your pride,dignity, person and his money.
    So who loss?nah him abegi.

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  5. Hehehehehe na person way wear shoes knw wia e d pinch am

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  6. Hehehehehe na person way wear shoes knw wia e d pinch am

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  7. My dear, to me the guy did nothing, he only want to draw your attention on your responsibility as a woman in his life,secondly lone without sex is just a word of lips that is the reasons i love white people because sex is mothing to them but nigerian girls do take their selve as preciouse gold, if you are inlove with a man for months and he dont ask for sex it means he is having it somewhere or something is wrong between that particuler love then you gat to ask you selve some questions so my dear money ia not every thing, if eventually you love the guy as you claim you should call on him and give him what he want and also prove to him that you love him. Thank you.

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  8. Marvel at women a times. You will say no sex, then you accept financial help from him. Is he your brother or father.

    Anyway dear, you will get over the hurt. Just try and find out what really happened.

    Then why is the states of Origin so necessary here. Did you have a prejudice already against him.

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  9. Possibly he is just pulling your legs but if he meant it, pls take a walk. He is not worth the HBP. Investigate him and stay away for some time

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