Monday, June 6, 2016

Could this be an Infection?

Good evening ma! Thank you soo much for the advice you've been giving people, though this is my first time of writing to you but am a good follower of this group...
Ma l have a problem here, l met this guy on Facebook around March, we started talking on phone until when l was on holiday. He invited me to his house in Lagos, at first l didn't want to go but l later summoned the courage and visited him. The first two days was just quarreling all through, he will leave me at home and go out, coming back around 11pm.
To cut the whole thing short l left his house, after one week he started behaving funny to the extend he never tried to call let alone picking my own calls... I have not seen my menstrual flow and l have gone for pregnancy test and is negative.
l don't just want to hear l've been infected or anything cause l dont mind laying curse he will ever regret in life because it works when l curse people and that was why l don't open my mouth any how when am angry... What should l do? Am worried l haven't seen my menstrual flow!!! And l don't even have the money for treating infections now!
Please ma is it bad to love a man?


When you took yourself to his house without considering the consequences and the security concerns of your life, when you opened your legs to receive his penis and enjoy sexual intimacy with him, you didn't remember that you were exposing yourself to some vulnerable infections, pregnancy and were also exposing yourself to kidnapping and assassination.
You cannot wilfully decide to go to a strange man's house, enjoy his company and then come back to threaten to curse him. If you think that your curses work, try it this time and you will see yourself getting burnt by the very things you wished for him.
From his reactions and attitude, it's obvious that he only wanted a one night stand with you and nothing serious, so I'm wondering what you were expecting after reducing yourself to his sleeping mat and increasing his sexual tally with loose ladies.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with loving a man, what is totally wrong is losing yourself, your identity, your virtues and your esteem because of a man. What is wrong is pursuing a man who doesn't have any respect, appreciation and genuine affection for you except to use your body and bid you goodbye.
Painfully no man takes a loose lady serious no matter her beauty because every man desires a lady who cannot be accessed by all and sundry but a lady who knows her value and isn't desperate to get laid by any man.
I will suggest that you go to the hospital and conduct HIV and AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections test so that you can ascertain the true status of your body and make amends your ways.
In your own best interest, please stop visiting anyone you meet online and spending days with them. Not everyone is as genuine as you are and you shouldn't expose yourself to circumstances that you can avoid. Don't even border to curse anyone because nothing will happen, instead learn from your errors and make amends.

15 comments:

  1. Nice reply Anty Amara! I mean this young lady is amusing. She hasn't told us what took her to his house, which am sure is because of money. How could she think that any man would take someone he met on social network, who visited him and spent days with him without even knowing who he is, seriously. For me I would think that's how you visit other people too! She can't even think of cursing anyone because God is already furious at her - she will be complicating the issue for herself. This is that mentality most ladies have - they always feel cheated by men even when they're the one that cheated themselves. #smh

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  2. Nice response ma'ma , sis be careful next time and don't think of calling cursing him..don't abuse the gift!!!

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  3. Young lady, u are damn too cheap. u mean u met someone on social network and went to stay days with him. u were never scared of being kidnapped and murdered, u were never scared of contacting HIV.For heavens sake what are u looking for?...... money, marriage, what on earth??????
    .......Oh my God!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  4. Dearie with ur story if u try to lay a curse it will hit u faster Dan thunder cos he never for once had interest in u. apart from ur body which u obliged him with

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  5. Dearie with ur story if u try to lay a curse it will hit u faster Dan thunder cos he never for once had interest in u. apart from ur body which u obliged him with

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  6. ..... sadly she didn't even get money. ouch!

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  7. Lol, this girl for crying out loud...your pussy no be kola nut and it is very very wrong for you to throw yourself at guys okay...that is the only gospel truth, it is never a good thing and no reasonable guy would genuinely love a cheap and loosed girl my dear, so never think about wasting your time to curse anyone cos it won't have any effect on the young man my dear...so be wise...God bless you.

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  8. Nice advice to we young girls we most try to respect ourselves.

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  9. Nice advice to we young girls we most try to respect ourselves.

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  10. I tried very hard to restrain myself from posting a comment but I just couldn't hold back. You no get shame at all, you met a man on facebook and you carried your stupid leg and the Toto Wey dey scratch you go meet am, you spread leg dey happy as dem dey fuck you. What were you expecting? A marriage proposal abi bundle of cash. Now you shamelessly come dey make threats. Look you can't course someone when your hands are not clean. The course go catch you first. Shameless girl it's girls like you that make most men think all girls are the same. How could open your stupid legs and allow a man you have just met to fuck you just like that and you have the guts to complain. Why won't he leave and come home by 11pm when you have sold yourself so cheap. I am sure this is not the first time you have done this, idiot. If you were my sister I go disown YOU. You better go and test you self for HiV. You don't have money meaning he even fucked YOU FOR free.

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  11. hmmm, Amara my sister there is nothing u won't hear.

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  12. I summoned courage..... So make we clap for you. A man you just met ONLINE 2 months ago don already fuck you for a whole week. Are you that horny and sex starved, even someone you meet in person 2 months is too damn short to even kiss him talkless of banging him. You no fear accident for road, you don't know if he is a ritualist or even a pervert with some weird sexual fantasy. You stupidly and greedily went to visit him with your horny t**o. You see your self after all the style you gave him you don't even have the comon sense to use protection, I sure sey you give am bj. Stupid girl, mumuu, dog ��

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  13. i dnt criticized oooo bt u need 2 b called mumu otondo.

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