Thursday, June 30, 2016

Scared of Dating my Ex's Brother.

Good day ma, am an ardent fan of your page and I really appreciate you for who you are and what to do.. Please ma am kinda in a tight corner now and I need your candid advice.
During my final year in school, around March I bought a phone from a lodge mate's brother, in the process we exchanged contacts. We just chat on WhatsApp and that was all...
Around August I met his elder brother through Facebook and one thing led to the other we started dating and got intimate in the process..
The other guy knew about us both cos he asked persistently and I told him everything.... He was not happy cos according to him he always liked me and wanted to ask me out but didn't know how to
Later on I broke up with his brother and when I told him he started professing his love over again... After school I travelled back to Lagos and he came to see me there, we got intimate in the process..
The guy says it doesn't matter if anything happened between his brother and I, that what matters is that he loves me... Now the guy wants something serious with me. I love the guy quite alright but am scared of building a relationship with a guy I already laid with his brother.
Should I go ahead and accept him or just forget about him... Please I need your advice ma.


The thought of dating two brothers is repugnant to me and I'm really screaming out loud, young lady, where is thy virtues?
What exactly do you really want and why do you appear to me as a cheap lady that any man can sing a love song to and her legs gets weakened for sex? 
I wish I could tell what exactly you are looking for but from your mail you don't seem like you know who you are and the web you are designing for yourself. 
Assuming that these two brothers fight each other because of you, what exactly will be your testimony? What if the elder brother pressurises you for sex, how will you deny him of sex and be faithful to his younger brother? 
Hello young beautiful lady, are you saying that there are no other men apart from these two brothers? I mean a decent lady will be shy and cold to allow two brothers hop into one vagina but you seem to be cool with it. 
I can't tell how this whole love thing will turn out, it's possible that things may work out but the possibility is actually very slim and it's possible that he's only there to enjoy the left over of his brother's escapades. Most men cannot reject a free drink as long as they don't need to pay anything for it. 
The decision is solely yours but I feel that you deserve better than this please. I'm even angry and devastated that you are my ardent follower and you allowed two brothers to toss you around like a table tennis but I hope and pray that God will open your eyes and give you the grace make the right decision.

5 comments:

  1. Nice one Aunty Amara you told her the bitter truth

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  2. Nice one Aunty Amara you told her the bitter truth

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  3. First of all poster; can you differrentiate LOVE & LUST. Most young ladies now think that when a man turns them on sexually; that is when they are in love. Go back to drawing board and think about your ideal man and your expectations from who you will call your husband.

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  4. The deed has been done.
    She has been intimate with the two.

    The girl should just forget the the two brothers and ask God for total cleansing.

    Ladies need to be totally selective of the people we open our legs for. It may appear that nothing happened until you start runing from pillar to post tomorrow, seeking for solution not knowing you brought all the calamity to yourself.
    Never sleep with the same blood.

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