Should I Wait for Him or Move on with my Life?

Good day Aunty Amarachukwu ...
There is this guy I knew for some years now. We have been just friends until January this year, he saw me in the evening around 7pm when I was coming back from somewhere and we greeted as usual. When I wanted to go, he asked for my number, I gave him without having anything in mind.
When he got home, he called me and we talked for some minutes, he was asking me to be his girl, that he wants to settle down, this and that.
I told him no that am not interested in any relationship now, that I want to have peace of mind, but he kept on calling me everyday. I now decided to give the guy a chance and we became very close. But I told the guy am a jealous lover whether he will tolerate it, he said no problem and we started visiting each other .
The problem started in June when I called him, I was still talking and he dropped the call on my ears. I got angry and I sent an insulting sms telling him I have called the girl I took her number from his phone....
Because I have been suspecting him and I went to his inbox and took a female number that he has been calling but the girl has been declining his request according to the girl. We didn't call ourselves for three days, on the fourth day I called him and asked him why he doesn't want to call my number. He said I should go and be calling the girl ....
I felt pained and heart broken because I know he has started seeing someone... I begged him on phone to forgive me, I even told my brother about it and my brother blamed me for going through his phone and he asked me to go to his shop and ask him for forgiveness. I did as my brother told me, I knelt before him asking him for forgiveness and he said is over.
But before we started having the problem he told me that his brother's wife told her husband that there is a lady that always visit my guy.... and his brother told him never to bring any girl in their compound again... So my guy told me any time we want to see will be at the hotel. I accepted because I love the guy.
I need your advice... My heart feel for the guy despite the fact that I know his new girlfriend. A day will not pass without me thinking of him, because am not good in keeping two relationship.....
Should I wait for the guy or should I moved on with my life and forget about him? My heart  is broken.


You wanted peace of mind and you settled for a man who doesn't respect your emotions, appreciate your personality and love you for who you are.
You desire not just to love but to be loved but you're willing to settle for a second option.
You wish to enjoy your relationship but you have lost yourself esteem and identity in the name of 'I love him'.
The very moment you begin to think of waiting for a man who is dating another lady, it's obvious that you have lost it all.
Even if men are scarce, no lady deserves to be treated as the second best. So why should you be the one waiting to see if his relationship will crumble, what if it doesn't, what will happen to you?
The real challenge with waiting for an unfaithful partner is that you lose sight and focus of your own partner as a result of your emotional attachment to the wrong partner.
The very moment you realised that he was in a relationship with another lady was the best time to move on with your life and trust God for your own partner.
Don't make him your priority when you're an option to him or be one of his statistics when you can be the only one for another man.
You deserve better than all these emotional tantrums and embarrassments that you're putting yourself through.