All the men that are asking me out have one or two kids outside wedlock, and the one who seems to be serious is Bayelsan with two kids and I have been discouraged that it is their lifestyle....
I don't see that as a problem, my fear is this..... What if their mum comes in the picture? What do I do? I don't want to chase a potential suitor because of that, it could have been me too who made the mistake. God bless you ma.
Well one of the privileges of a Bayelsan man is the freedom to increase, multiply, and subdue the earth. They have the freedom to marry as many as they wish, and get children from any woman they choose.
I'm not saying this to discourage you but to inform you of what to expect from a normal Bayelsan man except one who have encountered God in a most intimate manner. I think that you should be grateful that he wishes to marry you, but you must be very careful because no lady wishes to be used and dumped for another to bear Mrs.
Make sure that you are dealing with a single man who have no emotional attachment with his ex, find out why he's no longer interested in his baby mama of two children, and please don't be in a hurry to get married to him.
Pray about it and be convinced that he's emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually prepared for the responsibilities and commitment that comes with marriage.
Everyone is vulnerable to mistakes, but be careful not to marry a man who may continue with his 'mistake' even after getting married to you.
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