Thursday, January 12, 2017

How Do I Manage Our Finance?

Aunty Amara oo may God increase your wisdom, I have another issue that needs your advise please publish it comments might also help.
The young man I want to marry just told me that
he earns a N100, 000 a month,
previously it was N150, 000 but the recession caused a slash in his pay.
My job currently pays very little and once we marry, I have to move over to his state to start a life with him. It never really bothered me until when he started complaining that it is just too small, he really wants something better for me. I don't know ma if we can work a home with a N100, 000 I love him and I am not lazy I must also work.
Ma, how do we make it work with his pay? How do I build a home with it? I calm him down that there are better things ahead but he seems to be very adamant that he always wanted the best for me.
How do I manage our finance? God bless ma. Please help oo, I love this guy?


No amount of money is too small or too much for any organised person to plan his home with, all you need is to be as prudent as possible and work with what is available to you.
If you were planning to have a great social media wedding, then you may need to readjust to a mini wedding. If you were planning to have a colourful wedding, maybe you should reconsider looking at what lies ahead of you.
Instead of buying things when you need them, you can buy things in bulk and save some money. There are markets where things are relatively cheaper compared to other places, you can plan  buying things there instead of going to supermarkets.
It may not be so convenient for both of you but things will get better with time. Both of you may consider other streams of income to support his salary, and also make some structural changes to avoid living above your means.

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