Friday, April 14, 2017

Caught Him Cheating on Me!

Good morning Aunty Amara. I need your help concerning my relationship because right now I don't know what to do. 
I have been dating my boyfriend close to two years now, am 27 and he's 32.
I love him so much. I have never for once doubted his love because I really trust him.
I caught him cheating on me, and I have been asking him about one particular lady that always called him. Whenever I asked him what's going on between them, he keep saying nothing that they are not dating, that she's a sister to his friend and I believe him.
Aunty just yesterday I saw their chat on WhatsApp telling her how much he missed her, how he missed everything about her, how much he loves her. When I saw it, I didn't bother to ask him anything because I was just dumfounded.
Please Aunty I need your help.


I will suggest that you gradually withdraw from the relationship. My reason is simple, if he's cheating, he'll never have time for you, and if he doesn't have enough time for you, he'll always treat you as an option not a priority. 
Cheating is not accidental, it's actually a deliberate decision, and when a partner is cheating, please don't make yourself available for his games but you may lose out in the end.
No need for confrontations and explanations, simply separate yourself from him, if you mean anything to him, he will reach out to you and make genuine commitment to the relationship, until then the relationship is as good as dead.

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