Wednesday, April 5, 2017

Is It Right for My Boyfriend to Compliment other Ladies?

Good morning Ma, Ma please I would like to share my burden with you and your fans.
But before then, let me appreciate God for a creature like you, for blessing us with woman endowed with wisdom, I pray that GOD'S GRACE WILL REMAIN SUFFICIENT IN YOUR Life, AMEN.
MA PLEASE I WANT TO KNOW IF IT IS RIGHT FOR THE GUY YOU ARE IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP
WITH TO BE COMPLEMENTING OTHER GIRLS IN THIS MANNER, "MY LADY, MY WOMAN, MY ANGEL"
AND HE SAID HE IS NOT HAVING ANY AFFAIR WITH THEM, BUT IF I TAG HIM, HE ALWAYS FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE AND TELL ME HIS SCHOOL MOTHER WILL FALL OUT WITH HIM, (HE'S IN LANGUAGE SCHOOL IN ITALY, AND AT THE SAME TIME PLAYS FOOTBALL)
MA, AM NOW WONDERING IF THE SCHOOL MOTHER DOES NOT SEE THOSE COMPLEMENTS AND DOESN'T QUERRY HIM FOR THAT?
SO MA I TOLD HIM I CAN'T STAND HIS ATTITUDE, THAT I DON'T WANT A MAN THAT DOES NOT HAVE A CHOICE, AND DOES NOT KNOW WANT HE WANTS AND STANDS BY IT, AND I WANT MY MAN TO BE MINE AND JUST MINE.
MA, HE'S VERY HANDSOME, I KNOW LADIES ARE DYING TO HAVE HIM, BUT I BELIEVE HE'S THE ONE THAT DETERMINES WHO STAYS IN HIS LIFE AND WHO DOESN'T.
BUT HIS EX ONCE APPROACHED ME AND THEN TOLD ME MY GUY TOLD HER AM HIS GIRL, SO ATIMES AM JUST CONFUSED WITH THIS NEW ATTITUDE OF HIS, HE HIMSELF ALWAYS TELL ME HOW GIRLS WANT TO BE WITH HIM, BUT THE WAY HE COMPLEMENTS GIRLS THROWS ME OFF, AND I BELIEVE WITH SUCH ATTITUDE I CAN'T THINK WHEN HE STARTS CHEATING.
SO WHEN I MADE MY OPINION KNOWN TO HIM, HE SIMPLY SAID" I ALWAYS THINK NEGATIVE, AND SAID THAT I SHOULD DO WHATEVER MY MIND CHOOSES TO DO, AND HIM HIMSELF HE'S A GENUINE MAN AND WON'T CHANGE FOR ANY REASON, THAT HE WANTS EVERYONE TO BE HAPPY WITH HIM AND LOVE HIM."
MA, AM NOW WONDERING IF THERE IS ANYONE ON EARTH THAT DOESN'T HAVE ENEMY.
NOTE: AM A MEDICAL STUDENT IN ONE OF THE NIGERIAN UNIVERSITY.
THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.



You know what I think? I feel that you are the one who is forcing yourself on him and trying so much to make him feel your presence in his life. 
I don't know how both of you started but one thing is very certain, he doesn't respect you, nor is he entirely proud of your personality or presence in his life. 
He's worried about his school mother but comfortable with appreciating and complimenting other ladies. 
He wants to be on the good side of all ladies but doesn't want to consider your emotional needs. 
Whether he's the most handsome or the most richest, if he doesn't give you the peace of mind, or treat you as the lady in his life, his physical outlook or his wealth have no value in your relationship. 
I will suggest that you focus on your academics and pray for a man who will treat you with respect and affection.

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