I met a guy on Facebook like some months ago, we started dating though he's not in the country.....
He told me to get a passport using his surname so that it will be easier for him to help me with the travelling process so I can come and join him over there.....
He told me to get a passport using his surname so that it will be easier for him to help me with the travelling process so I can come and join him over there.....
He insisted that we should do a kind of introduction soon even his family members but he won't be coming down for the program due to the distance....
He said after the introduction my Visa will be ready, then I can easily come over... I have never set my eyes on him but have met with is family....
Please am I taking the right step to do the introduction and to travel down to join him?
Marriage is not a secret deal or a hidden agenda. You are not getting married to a ghost but a human being, and as such, there is a need for you to meet with the individual before getting married to him.
What if after introduction you find out that he's married or have children or some skeleton in his cupboard, will you still be married to him?
Who exactly are you introducing to your family, and who exactly are you getting married to? Or is this just an avenue for you to travel outside the country?
If you are prepared for the outcome of this experiment, then I will encourage you to give it a shot. Nothing is new under the sun, so whatever may be the outcome, I believe that you will experience them first hand and hopefully learn from your own journey.
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