Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Should I Stick with my Tight-Fisted Boyfriend?

I'm worried and I need an advice urgently. 

I am 33 years old though I look younger than my age. I've been single for a while till I met this guy in November and I then decided to give him a chance.
I am not the demanding type I love working for my money and also get good things for myself while my guy takes the credit from our friends. I'm really not bothered about that though.
I noticed my man is tight fisted, he does not want to spend, even if it's something meant for both of us. I remembered him telling me to get some things for him and when I get there he will refund the money, I did and he never did.
The worst part is that he gave me ₦500 for transportation back home, and my transport fare was ₦800. He said he will transfer the money to my account, twice he never did.
Last week, I was in the hospital and I needed to run some test and I went to make withdrawal from the ATM and my card was seized by the machine. I was helpless because I would still return to work that same day. I called my man crying that I am stranded,  he said let me see what I can do and the next time I heard from him was the evening of the following day. I put everything behind me and allowed peace reign.
I asked for call card since I was having issues withdrawing cash, he said okay and disappeared once again.
Please I need advice, should I confront him or just walk away because I really don't want something bothering my mind. Thanks. 

Though I would have said that you should talk to him, but you can't change a stingy man by mere talking to him, nor can you make him generous by talking to him. 
The best favour you can do for yourself and to him is to terminate the relationship and move forward with your life. 
He doesn't deserve to be tagged 'my man', not necessarily because he doesn't give you money, but simply because he doesn't care nor have any form of compassion/empathy for you in his life. 
You are happier and healthier without him than you are with him.

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