Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Should I Still Wait, Two Years after He Travelled?

I want to first of all say thank you very much for the lives you give meaning, I was recommended to you by my friend.
Mummy I'm in a long distance relationship but we dated for about two years before he traveled, and I can say it was still long distance because we were in different towns.
He has been out for more than two years, the relationship has been going well till I gave my life to Christ and started studying the Word of God deeply, then I realised that there were some things that we have been doing that are not of God. When I tried to explain to him severally, he didn't understand.
Also, I have been very faithful and I don't even entertain male friends, I don't go out, I don't socialise, my life is work, school, church, house but he doesn't not seem to appreciate it.
In addition, I hardly demand things from him but he doesn't put me in mind that I have needs. Most at times I work late at night, meanwhile he's there expecting me to talk and please him through calls, meanwhile I live with my elder sis and husband.
He sends me money like a hundred thousands in one year and he expects that I should be online 24/7, meanwhile I work and there are times I don't also have money but when I try to explain to him, he gets very mad at me.
Worst of all is that he keeps postponing his coming with so much excuses.
So mum, I'm really confused because I don't know if I should continue waiting for him or I should go on with my life, because I love him in as much as I understand that there are other things that contribute to a marriage or relationships.
Thanks a lot. 

Never wait for any individual when you don't have the same vision and/or timeline with the individual. 
While you are here waiting for him, he may be there enjoying himself with another lady or making a different plan for himself which you have no idea of. 
If after more than two years of waiting for him, you cannot tell when he will come back, you cannot tell when both of you may likely get married, you cannot tell exactly where the relationship is headed to, then it's time to take your destiny in your hand and move on with your life. 
Though you love him, but it's in your best interest not to wait for a man who may have a different plan from your own expectation.


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