Tuesday, January 23, 2018

Can One Have a Happy Marriage Without Dating or Courtship?

Good morning ma, please this is urgent and I need advice from you and your congress. Please is it possible to marry someone without any courtship and still have a happy marriage.
My problem is that I've not known this guy. He came to my father's house few days ago with someone that brought him to introduce to me. He told me his intentions (marriage).
I asked him for time so we could court for few months in order to know each other, but he stated that he is in a hurry as that is what brought him home from his base.
He looks cool in appearance though but I just don't want to make a decision based on appearance. He called yesterday asking that we go for test so he can do some necessary things.
Please did anyone in the house marry this way without knowing anything about the person apart from where he is from and what he said he does for a living and still had blissfully marriage.
Note, we just met on Saturday which is barely three days now.
I later heard from someone that he was once married but lost his wife. We didn't discuss all that. People around said he is good. For me I don't have much time in terms of age, but I don't want to make mistakes in choosing my life partner.

If you are hiring a slave, you can reach a deal in hours with/without meeting with him. If you are hiring a staff/worker, you can do that without asking any serious questions. 
However, if you are talking about marriage, you need to be in charge of your thoughts, perception, vision and choice of your own partner, friend, husband and companion. 
This has absolutely nothing to do with whether it worked for Cordelia or Theresa, you need to realize that marriage is not what you gamble into with opinions and guesses from others. 
If you need some time to know him, please press for it, and if he's not willing to give you some time to know more about his personality, vision and background, then you shouldn't be cowed with marriage proposal. 
That you are old enough to get married doesn't mean that you should rush into marriage with any man that comes with marriage proposal. 
It may turn out to be your worst decision or perhaps your best gamble, but the choice is yours to make. 
If you had to depend on other people to know about his previous marriage, how many more people would you need to consult to know more about him after Wedding?
Wake up, it's too early to make a blind decision when you can take all the caution and precaution you need to avoid getting married to a man and end up with regrets.


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