Wednesday, January 10, 2018

I Feel Devastated and Heartbroken by Hubby's Flirty Habit!

Aunty Amara, happy new year... Thanks for your good works...
I have been married for four years plus now, with a baby girl.. I love my husband so much and he loves me too.
He had issues, business issues, almost same time with got married.. It's been hell trying to meet up. I work at the Island, though based on commission,
so I have been taking care of almost 96-percent of home responsibility, even getting stuffs for my husband.. As God would have it, my hubby got a job late last year. We were both happy.
I just found out on new year this year, that hubby has been flirting with some ladies on his phone..
I have the woman's Facebook handle, the worst is that she is married.. I confronted hubby, thou quietly..
Can you believe that since then till now, he has not spoken to me, he has changed his phone password. I still serve him food, he eats, sleeps, goes to work, comes back, and continues whatever he is doing on his phone, and my mind tells me he still chats that woman.
I am so devastated and heart broken, is like I am losing my mind. I have been thinking about it, I barely eat now..
This is the first time I am experiencing this.... I never had trust issues in my relationship... This is somebody I did all, just to make him happy. He has access to my account, I dropped money for him, almost all the time, so he could be up and doing..
Now God smiled on us and gave him job, is it women he is thinking off? Please advice me. Thank you ma. 


Make out time in the cool of the evening, maybe a weekend, maybe when you feel that he is calm or relaxed, and then discuss your concerns with him. 
Ask him why he has chosen to keep silent when he could talk to you or at least assure you of his love and commitment to you. 
Perhaps he felt that you were encroaching into his privacy and taking undue advantage of your financial fortunes to intimidate him by monitoring his phone. 
Remember that you need a convincing and concrete evidence to confront him, should you have anything against him, and you need to do that when the time and atmosphere is okay. 
I guess he felt like a wounded lion which is why he has decided to remain silent and lick his wound. 
Take your time and discuss this with him, let him know how hurt you felt which made you ask for clarification. 
His reaction/response will go a long way to determine how best to address your issues with him. 
One of the mystery of marriage is that both you and your spouse keep evolving, growing, and transforming into amazing personalities. You can never predict anything, but you can learn how to adapt, learn, and at the same time tackle issues you may encounter in your marriage. 
Avoid creating room for insecurity to consume your heart/mind, and never give your husband the reason to feel that you are fighting to keep him. 
Take things one step at a time, and please don't let love make you forget that you need to prepare yourself for any unpleasant experience your marriage may bring to you.

2 comments:


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