Where Do I Belong In His Life?

Sis good evening, please there's something I want to tell you about. There is this guy who I have been dating for five years now, I have been faithful to him all these while and we are both students.

He never come to me one on one to talk about marriage, he only talk about it on phone, but it is not a long distance relationship. Every holiday, he normally travel to where he's based.

What I am trying to say is that I do not really know where I belong in his life ... While dating him, he still have other girls around him that he sleeps with ...

While trying to draw his attention, he will just get angry.

Some days back, I saw some packs of condoms inside his bag, I was trying to ask him how he came about the condom,  he said nothing about it and paid a deaf ear about it.

Aunty, please I am totally confused here, because he is all I ever wanted. I don't really know what to do now. He is graduating this year, while I am just in my HND1 now.

Ma, please I really need your help and your advice here, please reply me when you see it. 

You are in a 'friends with benefit' kind of relationship. For him, there is nothing like a commitment to you or any long term relationship plan between you and him. 

All he wants is a lady who he can sleep with, and benefit from, while he also sleeps with other ladies. 

If you do not want such a relationship, kindly terminate the relationship, because he may never marry you nor have any long term plan with you. 

No need to wait or waste your time trying to build a relationship that is not in existence.