tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post1468944850929448986..comments2024-03-28T21:23:45.992-04:00Comments on Amara Blessing Nwosu: Love, Life and Relationship Counseling Online: I Find it Difficult to Trust Someone! Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01964092978400088086noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-88362995585805431232015-08-12T06:52:52.056-04:002015-08-12T06:52:52.056-04:00I personally do not think you have a problem...We ...I personally do not think you have a problem...We all have what works for us..Some people thrive by trusting others...some thrive by keeping everybody on check...It's all about what keeps you happy and healthy devoid of betrayal and heartbreaks ..<br />My life became beautiful the day i stopped trusting people..I also do not crave to be trusted either...<br />This has not hampered my relationship with people in anyway....i mingle and interact effectively but i always expect anything from anybody i deal with...And so doing....i hardly experience shock or heartbreak when people exhibit human nature....Its like being under a roof before the rain starts falling....<br />Love and relationships have been given a wrong definition....Everything now seems adulterated...In most cases....its all about personal gains and selfish interests...And when the benefit is not reaped by one party, the so called "Love" becomes "Hate" overnight then true colours start shining...This wrong perception of love has eaten deep into the heart of the society and people keep falling for it increasingly...<br />The reason why many people hardly remain the same after experiencing a heartbreak goes down to the amount of trust they put into the relationship forgetting that they're dealing with humans that could disappoint and change at any given moment...It is good to be in love...but love should in no way swallow reality...One needs to be realistic no matter the extent of love shown towards or from a partner....They say love is blind but these days....Love should not only see but have foresight...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277037241079415124noreply@blogger.com