tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post35338399079151027..comments2024-03-28T21:23:45.992-04:00Comments on Amara Blessing Nwosu: Love, Life and Relationship Counseling Online: I need help, I'm confused! Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01964092978400088086noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-63672482155819921312015-08-02T16:08:30.930-04:002015-08-02T16:08:30.930-04:00Dear,let me talk to you as my own baby-sister(hope...Dear,let me talk to you as my own baby-sister(hope you know her,as I don't joke with her):<br /><br />1. As I said earlier,look beyond what your heart is doing today(it's just chemicals in your bloodstream reacting. They are not really to be trusted). Look for where your FUTURE HAPPINESS, SAFETY & SUCCESS will be guaranteed. And,judging from what your 2 guys have demonstrated so far,they cannot be trusted with such sacred assignments.<br />2. Quit looking for the wrong things in a man. The average idiot out there can treat you like a lady,and even introduce you to the whole world if you want and he can,as long as it will help him achieve his evil plans for you. As my mentor would warn my sisters: EVERY WOMANIZER IS A NICE MAN. Treating a woman like a woman and being nice,are important and necessary,but they do not make a man; they only make him look beautiful. They are like they are like the icings on a cake - they are not the CAKE. When you meet a man,one of the FIRST things you should look out for,apart from a functional relationship with God,are his PURPOSE,CHARACTER,VALUES & IDEOLOGIES. And,if his does not agree with yours,shut down every possibility of a romantic relationship with him. Just be friends,and if he is criminal,keep him out of your life or keep yourself out of his life. These are the things that really define who he is,and what he will do to your life. But,what do I mean by these?<br />1. PURPOSE: Has he found a reason for living? Has he discovered why he was born and are pursuing it? Is he committed to a cause higher than himself? Is he committed to the right cause....a cause that will not bring you harm? Does he have a sense of mission? <br />2. CHARACTER: What's his commitment to doing what is right whether the circumstances are favourable or not? <br />3. VALUES: What are the things that are most important to him? Does he value money more than people,more than integrity? Does he believe money is money no matter how it is made?<br /><br />http://aminspired247.blogspot.in/2015/03/quick-downloads-101-over-500-free.htmlGO FOR THE TRUTH - PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT MEDIA CENTRE {PDMC}https://www.blogger.com/profile/16437793885552850940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-1463645269315213442015-08-02T10:35:57.580-04:002015-08-02T10:35:57.580-04:00Dear,I sense a lot of fear and desperation in your...Dear,I sense a lot of fear and desperation in your letter. What are you really afraid of? What is the worst that can possibly happen? What is it that you cannot handle?<br />You speak as one who is not grounded,as one who is spiritually out of alignment,as one wh has no strong moral convictions about the things she believes are right. What could be undermining your moral strength? Have you been sleeping with him? You know you are with the wrong man,but yet you lack the resolve to stand up and just leave. You don't enter relationships to change people; you ONLY enter a relationship with a CHANGED PERSON,and go on to change the world. What matters most,is not really where our heart is,as our heart can be deceived. What matters most is: WHERE WILL ENSURE OUR FUTURE HAPPINESS? For your fears,get materials by Joseph Prince and binge on them. #QuickDownloads™101 <br /><br />GET HELP@ http://aminspired247.blogspot.in/2015/07/quick-downloads-101-list-of-free_28.htmlGO FOR THE TRUTH - PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT MEDIA CENTRE {PDMC}https://www.blogger.com/profile/16437793885552850940noreply@blogger.com