tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post4099338034785968175..comments2024-03-28T21:23:45.992-04:00Comments on Amara Blessing Nwosu: Love, Life and Relationship Counseling Online: Does he really love me?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01964092978400088086noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-28262160377922146912015-07-02T06:21:48.396-04:002015-07-02T06:21:48.396-04:00My dear I no is not easy but please move on don&#...My dear I no is not easy but please move on don't listen to him Cux he's trying not to hurt you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10721286089893714328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-58262582251672501682015-07-02T06:19:57.173-04:002015-07-02T06:19:57.173-04:00My dear I no is not easy but please move on don&#...My dear I no is not easy but please move on don't listen to him Cux he's trying not to hurt you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10721286089893714328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-8825077003310799362015-07-01T19:58:49.191-04:002015-07-01T19:58:49.191-04:00I think he's this nice guy who is friendly and...I think he's this nice guy who is friendly and treats people well, he's just being himself but you've fallen so deep for him. The issue here is that both of you are not on same page, he sees you as a friend he needs to help to achieve her dreams thats all, while you see him as a husband, probably he may have someone in mind who he's tripping for and his dream wife, moreover he tells you those lovely things because he doesn't want to hurt you, but he's very careful not to say what he can't do.<br /><br />The irony of life is that , we chase what keeps running away from us and refrain things that becons us.<br />I admire your courage but you see, its also good for the man to do the chasing, so you don't end up building what does not exist.<br /><br />I'll advise, you ask him again and if he says just friends, take the response and move on with your life, if he changes his mind tomorrow, fine but then remove marriage with him from your mindchidinma anyanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-90971093847205800482015-07-01T17:26:21.154-04:002015-07-01T17:26:21.154-04:00Hello! I'm really impressed by your courage wh...Hello! I'm really impressed by your courage which I saw when you said you approached him yourself, meaning you went for what you want(ed). I wish your friend is ready to see how much you love him, I also wish you get to know him well in order to understand what he really wants in future because from the look of things, he is letting you know you two won't end up together, sounding it so clear to you. My dear there is an extent to which you'll have to try your best and if it isn't working out, then you need to make a tough decision. <br /><br />Seriously it's kind of nice for him to tell you before time that the relationship isn't going to lead to anywhere so you won't base all your being in the relationship to avoid fatal heartbreak when it's time to part ways. I don't know your guy neither do I know his fears or what he is up to, but he must have his reason(s) for telling you about shunning the marriage stuff. <br /><br />Come to think of it, I'm surprised he has told you he isn't gonna get married to you and yet he doesn't want you to leave his side, he wants you to remain with him. Maybe you need to take things easy when it comes to the love affair between you both, it's best you remain on that friendship pace and nothing attached, so when it's time to move ahead no one will get hurt.<br /><br />God bless your courage.Chief Mariohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13743041327809111158noreply@blogger.com