tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post2882707201409481093..comments2024-03-28T21:23:45.992-04:00Comments on Amara Blessing Nwosu: Love, Life and Relationship Counseling Online: I Think my Marriage is a Scam! Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01964092978400088086noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-83116264230416942752015-12-16T14:33:17.960-04:002015-12-16T14:33:17.960-04:00I am wondering what you want people to advise you....I am wondering what you want people to advise you. You saw the signs and knew who he was,because from your write up you knew all these things before you got married but you thought he would change. Rather you thought you could change him. Truth is changing a man to marry him or marrying to change him is the most catastrophic thing a woman can ever do to herself. As it stands the damage has been done and there is no need weeping over spilled milk cause you cant drink it anymore. You have to come to face the reality of what is at hand.I may sound mean but fasting and praying for him to change isn't all you need. Sometimes as Christians we want to tell God our plans and let Him work with that, when it is supposed to be the reverse.<br />my advise is that you go to God in prayer ask Him for mercy, be sincere with Him and tell Him you have made a mistake and let Him deal with you first. As it stands you need to work on yourself first like madam Amara has advised ,get busy,learn a skill or trade, go and work. Too often we want to change others when we ourselves need to change.Work on your attitude.<br />When you have done that you can ask the marriage counselors like madam Amara on what to do as regards your marriage and how to make it work or not. whilst you pray for him to change you are also changing. I am not married yet and I don't think i am in the best position to advise you on your marriage. ShalomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-71403203313611283262015-12-16T11:11:26.333-04:002015-12-16T11:11:26.333-04:00You need more patience if you want to help him to ...You need more patience if you want to help him to change even you know he was in prison and after we got married that means you love because less ladies don't accept to wed as you did. You have to praise the Lord only him can help you to solve this issue my advice you need to pray more even fasting and watch Him handle your life everything is going to be right.... Your husband is able turn out to the right side as you want. You know what is wrong so your marriage is not a scam trusts me my dear pray more and less talk and watch the changing comes pretty soon.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10382879812007416813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-83839981995422069442015-12-16T10:31:02.227-04:002015-12-16T10:31:02.227-04:00I don't see anything painful here. U knowingly...I don't see anything painful here. U knowingly marry a scammer and u are crying foul here. Atimes I don't just understand how some ppl reasonsAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12365224150752403609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-1045055822641168882015-12-16T09:20:50.494-04:002015-12-16T09:20:50.494-04:00This is painful...
Not your experience dear poster...This is painful...<br />Not your experience dear poster...Your action and decision is so painful...<br />Why marry a guy with the hope to change him even after the signs you saw?<br />Even after all his attempts to scam you?<br />Even upon knowing he survives with internet fraud?<br />What happened to you?<br />You bargained for this madam...<br />I feel desperation got a better part of you..<br />You don't sow maize expecting to harvest beans..<br />You got yourself into this..<br />I'm lost for words..<br />Well...if you can, quit this game you call marriage and reorganize your life..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277037241079415124noreply@blogger.com