tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post5541781622021028575..comments2024-03-25T20:57:33.048-04:00Comments on Amara Blessing Nwosu: Love, Life and Relationship Counseling Online: Will pregnancy make things easier?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01964092978400088086noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-13586801331158791622015-07-08T11:09:35.860-04:002015-07-08T11:09:35.860-04:00For some reasons,am not just comfortable with this...For some reasons,am not just comfortable with this kind of MENTALITY & VALUE-SYSTEM being demonstrated by your man,and to a little extent,you. Does it mean you guys do not have STRONG CONVICTIONS about what you believe is right? Does it mean you guys are not so convinced about what you believe is right that you are willing to defend it with your life? That,at the sign of opposition,you are already contemplating compromising? Looking for a short-cut,instead of going the full length and growing through the process,and strengthening your love? If this is the case,how are you going to survive the challenges of your future,cos life will always be harsh on men and women who are not strongly convinced about what is right that they believe in? <br /><br />I hope this is not your fiance's way of handling issues?<br />I hope this is not his way of solving problems?<br />I hope this is not his way of dealing with life? #QuickDownloads™101GO FOR THE TRUTH - PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT MEDIA CENTRE {PDMC}https://www.blogger.com/profile/16437793885552850940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-13355579753900122742015-07-08T10:42:21.136-04:002015-07-08T10:42:21.136-04:00'...If your boyfriend cannot convince his sibl...'...If your boyfriend cannot convince his siblings that he is old enough, mature and responsible enough to know what he needs in a woman and who to marry,then I may not encourage you to get married to him....' ~ Amara (c)2015<br /><br />Your man's suggestion sounds wise,but it is actually very....foolish. Hope that's not his way of solving problems? For how long is he going to always look for short-cuts? You don't become a man that way. It always pays to do the right thing,and do things right,so you don't destroy the foundation of your marriage,and create unnecessary problems for yourselves in the future. This is an opportunity for both of you,especially your man,to demonstrate his maturity,and that ability to do what is right,irrespective of whose ox is gored and take responsibility for his choices. If that cannot be done,forget the marriage - it won't survive the challenges of the future. #QuickDownloads™101<br /><br />http://aminspired247.blogspot.in/2015/04/fela-durotoye-how-to-become-woman-of.html GO FOR THE TRUTH - PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT MEDIA CENTRE {PDMC}https://www.blogger.com/profile/16437793885552850940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-83837595682299297592015-07-08T06:50:07.931-04:002015-07-08T06:50:07.931-04:00Hello! Truth be told, if you get pregnant for him,...Hello! Truth be told, if you get pregnant for him, am sorry to say that it doesn't in any way make things easier for him. First of all, his family is divided due to the osu thing which some people take very serious, so it's best his family come to an agreement to how the whole thing goes before the marriage proper because if you in a way get pregnant and at the end the marriage doesn't hold, you might just invite suffering to yourself because a lot of things will come up which I don't think you will like and even if the marriage holds, I'm not sure you will appreciate the attitude of some of your inlaws.<br /><br />So my dear the best thing is for him to talk to his family and also make inquiries on the osu thing to know how it works. If everything works out fine, then it will be to the advantage of you both.<br /><br />God bless.Chief Mariohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13743041327809111158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-20669660346032604142015-07-08T04:53:48.545-04:002015-07-08T04:53:48.545-04:00I don't think his siblings should decide for h...I don't think his siblings should decide for him,but it is somehow to get married to someone who is Osu in IGBO land it is not allowed and it is an abomination,that is why before you start a relationship with someone you have to ask the necessary questions to know who the person really is. #EllaBigger Laggernoreply@blogger.com