tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post7484611970130217380..comments2024-03-25T20:57:33.048-04:00Comments on Amara Blessing Nwosu: Love, Life and Relationship Counseling Online: Should I quit or Manage?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01964092978400088086noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-80315024850814265602015-06-19T12:23:44.786-04:002015-06-19T12:23:44.786-04:00Dear poster every marriage on this earth must have...Dear poster every marriage on this earth must have a prize to pay and difficult times. When the going was good you allowed him pay your bride prize,so its time to show that you did not just accept to marry him because of his circumstances then. This may be the prize you have to pay for the Love in this marriage to manifest. Am happy you have a job,so please never forsake this guy at this point .because you don,t know tomorrow.just keep praying for him.Had it been he was not caught on drugs and he came home successful you will not even mind.Probably he had a sophisticated wedding in mind for both of you.So pray he come out alive cos this same prisoner today can be a Multi billioner and a better person tomorrow.Be guided accordingly.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-66551902883121059552015-06-19T07:48:42.010-04:002015-06-19T07:48:42.010-04:00So much love your advice aunty Amara...dear poster...So much love your advice aunty Amara...dear poster..carefully consider what Amara said.i know its not gonna be easy but I think that's the best thing to do now.may the lord give you strength as you continue to stand by him.it is well with youjoemikenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-41978915745788477142015-06-19T07:10:37.395-04:002015-06-19T07:10:37.395-04:00Marriage is 4 better 4 worst why tink of leaving h...Marriage is 4 better 4 worst why tink of leaving him now? Dis is d tym he needs u most & d least u can do 4 him now is 2 be d shoulder he can lean & cry on despite d quarrels & misundastnding. I knw it has not been easy wif u but dats lyf 4 u marriage is neva a bed of roses nah! With patience, faith & prayer 2 God almighty, u will get through dis oky! It's well wif u....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05509289581691561473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-90024714549046363152015-06-19T07:08:30.499-04:002015-06-19T07:08:30.499-04:00Marriage is 4 better 4 worst why tink of leaving h...Marriage is 4 better 4 worst why tink of leaving him now? Dis is d tym he needs u most & d least u can do 4 him now is 2 be d shoulder he can lean & cry on despite d quarrels & misundastnding. I knw it has not been easy wif u but dats lyf 4 u marriage is neva a bed of roses nah! With patience, faith & prayer 2 God almighty, u will get through dis oky! It's well wif u....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05509289581691561473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-57407667381228598202015-06-19T03:51:59.227-04:002015-06-19T03:51:59.227-04:00My dear, I vividly understand what You and Your hu...My dear, I vividly understand what You and Your husband is going through... Madam Amy has already said it all without mincing words, but notwithstanding, I will like to add some few words, having a husband in prison is a stigma in our society, however, it's still possible to cope and get over this difficult time in Your life, I also understand that sometimes You might find it difficult to endure this trying time and still maintain a positive attitude towards Your husband, work place and everybody around You, I also understand that sometimes You might be living in hiding because You might be afraid the neighbors might find out and start asking the whereabouts of Your husband, and You will resort to lying that he is on a "business trip," to protect Yourself. After all, the neighbors would be shocked to know that a drug pusher's wife lives next door to them.<br /><br />My dear, I have seen and heard so many cases of our naija brothers serving jail terms, while some are already condemned to death in prison around the world... that makes me wonder just how many wives and loved ones are left behind and forgotten, please dear, just make Merry and rejoice that Your husband isn't giving a death penalty, someday some how, he will definitely be out, and You both can live happily ever after..<br /><br />Now dear, this is a way You can cope: Keep in close contact with Your husband, accept his phone calls, text messages and respond positively to his chats, if there is anything he ask of You and You can't be able to afford it, just explain to him in a very modest way, as he is currently emotionally traumatized, and this can make him to be too sensitive than normal, don't always over react in most of his ill-mannered behaviours, as he is bound to behave that way...<br /><br />Last but not the least, try to organize Your life, be useful to Yourself, keep Your self busy with something productive and stop thinking a lot...<br /><br />If eventually Your husband is finally released, please ask him to desist from drug trafficking, encourage him to turn a new leaf, to avoid any other story that touches the heart....<br /><br />I'm sending a positive thought to You and Your husband, he will soon gain back his freedom in Jesus name... Amen!!!! #JesusLovesYouAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15290496722685519126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2226993804954876299.post-10474963840750394072015-06-19T03:38:01.342-04:002015-06-19T03:38:01.342-04:00My advice: you should cut your loses now while you...My advice: you should cut your loses now while you still can. Move on with you life. He choose the path of being a drug dealer, so he should face the consequences like a man and stop whining.<br /><br />If you are waiting for some mirage or some wonder to happen, it may not happen for you. Even is he is released today, things will not be easy for u. You should at 1st trust your initiative about this guy. My advice is face your carrier squarely & move on.Agataphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15573902679434934214noreply@blogger.com