Tuesday, July 12, 2016

His Mother is Against Him Getting Married to Me.

Aunty am I need help
After the heart break which I told you about and you advised me to move on with my life
There is this guy I met, he works in a bank and we got into a relationship.
It's been two months now, we attend the same church and we love each other
He asked me my past and I told him and he also told me about his.
Last weekend he asked me to marry him, I said yes and we planned on going to meet his family this weekend only for him to tell me yesterday that his mother told him that he cannot marry from IMO state
He told me that the mum knelt down and begged him not to marry from Imo state
He said he is confused because the mom told him that if he goes on with his plan that she will not give him blessings .
Since he told me this I have not been myself cos I thought I have met the love of my life.
Please help me ma.


Simply watch and pray. Whatever becomes his decision, kindly respect him and accept it in good faith. I still maintain that God's approval supersedes parental blessing or approval as the case may be.
I have seen those who had the parental approval and their marriage crashed and I have also seen individuals who stood up for their convictions and they prospered in their marriage.
Marriage is not a compensation for any parents, it's not the journey that your parents must instruct and command you on who to marry and who not to marry.
Their duty is to guide, give counsel and then allow you to make your own decisions. If God wanted parents to select wives for their children, he wouldn't have said that a man shall leave his father and mother and be united to his wife.
So if anyone understands the divine covenant of marriage, such an individual will never allow anyone to dictate who he must marry or who she must not marry.
In all, don't lose hope in God but allow him to reveal everything in due course.

15 comments:

  1. I bet you this man is from Anambara State ( ndi mama anyi si anyi amaghi alu ndi Imo). Trust me she have arranged a girl for his son.

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    1. Oh yes. Anambra men are mummy's babies none of them are men yet until they learn how to deal with life without sit ting on their mummy's laps.

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    2. I smell deep and genetic seated anger for Anambra ppl. Pls can't he be from Enugu,Abia,Ebonyi,Delta,Edo etc? Pls stop hating.

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    3. You know what I find funny,in all you find them all responding to ndigbo kwenu. I wonder what the mother would do if he brings a Yoruba girl, all dis dem mama's. God help us o to different

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  2. Has it gotten to a level we are intolerant of ourselves?

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  3. My life was destroyed when my husband sent me packing, after 13 years we have been together. I was lost and helpless after trying so many ways to my husband back to me. One day at work, I was distracted, not knowing that my boss called me, so he sat and asked me what it was all about, I told him and he smiled and said it was no problem. I never understood what he meant by it was no problem getting back my husband, he said he used a spell to get back his wife when she left him for another man, and now they are together till date and initially I was shocked hearing something from my boss. He gave me an email address of the Prophet abuvia which helped him get his wife back, I never believed that this would work, but I had no choice coming into contact with the sayings that I get done, and he asked for my information and that my husband was able to propose to throw him the spell and I sent him the details, but after two days, my mother called me that my husband was pleading that he wants me back, I never believed, because it was just a dream and I had to rush off to my mother's place and to my greatest surprise, was kneeling my husband beg me for forgiveness that he wants me and the child back home, when I gave prophet abuvia a conversation regarding sudden change of my husband and he made clear to me that my husband will love me until the end of the world, that he will never leave for another woman. Now me and my husband is back together and started doing funny things he has not done before, he makes me happy and do what it is suppose to do as a man without nagging. Please if you need help of any kind need, please contact Abuvia Prophet for help. His email is prophet.abuvia@gmail.com his website is prophetabuviasolutiontemple.webs.com

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  4. One Anambra guy did this same rubbish to my sister, He took her to his mother and the mother said that over her dead body to let her son marry an Imolite. Well, my sister was angry because she loved the mom's boy but today she is happily married to one of the nicest guys on earth with a bouncing baby boy. The Anambra guy is still waiting for his mom. My dear relax and enjoy life. God is on ur side. Imo and Anambra is one but some mothers dont get it.

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  5. Yes I once had dat experience I was dating him before u kw it he told me dat his mom say he shlud nt marry frm imo my dear pls move on n forget dat guy

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  6. My sister I know how you feel now but the truth cannot be over emphasized over the anambraian's attitude towards the imonite's....the simple truth is that anambra guys don't go well with imo girls/ladies especially when it comes to marriage but for frndsip is easy,listen to that voice speaking thru his mum run for your their life cus he will marry from his side or if he insist in getting married to you ma sister you will suffer in the marriage. Am frm imo and i grew up in anambra,awka to be precisely,even schooled there ma uni. They do not think good about imo gehs at all..so pls pls and pls my sister you're too precious to us the imonites to be use for money rituals cus to them that's what the imo girls are good for....move on with your life biko that's how they behave....their common comments(I hear dat imo ppl use one trailer load of yam to marry out their daughters,they too love money,sleep and with mny men even after marriage)all these is wat they do..yes.

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  7. ethnic palava, are we are all 1 nigeria

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