Tuesday, December 12, 2017

How Did I Offend my Husband?

Good morning ma. I saw your post about ladies going after married men, it was as if you posted on my behalf because I found out my husband is cheating on me and I couldn't sleep throughout the night.
I have been thinking how I did wrong, my husband based outside the country and he comes home only Christmas period.

Monday, December 11, 2017

Does He Actually Love Me?

Good evening and complement of the season Aunty Amara. Please I'm confused now and I need your help ma.
I'm 25, just finished serving and still believing God for a job.  I met a guy while serving, he had interest in me but because I prepared my mind before going to service that I won't date any corper because most the relationship ends immediately after NYSC, and I don't want that.

Sunday, December 10, 2017

Mother-in-law Doesn't Help with Chores!

Good evening ma, there is this issue bothering my mind and need to let out.
I am a Christian and married ... I and my husband love each other, we had no issues aside the issue of bringing his mum to come and live with us....

Wednesday, December 6, 2017

Gifts from the other Lady Makes me Jealous.

Good day ma.. Please help me, I am confused on what to do. Started dating my guy this year, prior to that, we have been friends and there is this lady that is so in love to the extent of posting his pictures on social media.. 

Tuesday, December 5, 2017

I'm Battling with Depressed in my Marriage!

Mummy good afternoon, thanks for this opportunity. I got married in 2015 with three kids, and I am 25 years. Ever since we got married, I have been abused physically, mentally and emotionally.
My husband is the type that lies about someone for people to hate that person and support what he is doing. Anytime I hear his car horn, fear grips my heart. I dare not talk to him anyhow.

He Caught me in the Act with my Boss!

Good evening Aunty Amara, please help me cause am losing my mind.....
My boss have been sexually harrasing me, he has forcefully slept with me twice at the office.
Last week, my boyfriend who has never asked me of sex and loves me very well caught us in the act.

Monday, December 4, 2017

Could Hubby be Obsessed with his Ex?

Hello ma! How are you doing?
I really admire you. I need honest advice.
I have caught my husband several times looking at his ex pictures or chatting with her(one particular lady).
It was after Wedding when he first did it and I found out, his sister confided in me that he loved the girl but she wasn't really into him but they dated.

Sunday, December 3, 2017

I Want to Leave the Relationship but it's Difficult for Me!

Good pm, God bless you for the work you are doing. My story will be lengthy.
I am in a relationship and our relationship is ten months old this month. I am sponsoring this girl at catering school. I am the one that is paying the bills, even her transport fares everyday, her cloth, I change her hairstyle like every three weeks.
This is the girl I wanted to marry next year once she graduated, and I made my intention known to her family.

Shit Happens: My Rape Experience!

Happy Sunday Aunty Amara...
I want to share one of my wilderness story with you...
I came across a story trending lately about a lady that was raped by a guy and a lot of people were saying different things against the girl, this prompted me to write you. Shit happens..
After my first marriage crashed, I was doing all I could to stand on my own. I tried music, modelling, acting, business just about any legitimate thing to keep going..
I met this gospel artist, he owns a band and popular in Lagos.

Is This Marriage or Slavery?

I need your advice on this.. I met my husband in 2013, we dated and got married in 2015. We were two imperfect people that seemed perfect for each other cause I am  temperamental while he is very calm to issues; I am the outgoing type while he barely goes out. Regardless of our differences, he was teachable and gives room for change if need be.
Two years into the marriage, after the birth of our first child, my husband changed completely. According to him, what prompted the change was that he is now a devoted Christian.

Thursday, November 30, 2017

Must Read! What Must I Do to Succeed in my Business?

Good day am please post to your wall so as for me to know if my problem is spiritual or mismanagement. I am a lady and 29 years, though an only child of my parents(circumstances not made it so), was singlehandedly raised by my mum, although my dad later came into the picture when I was rounding up university.
Ever since I left school, there is nothing I have done(business wise) that I succeeded. After I graduated, I learnt a skill from the little I saved, my mum assisted me to set up a little place which went down due to poor sales.

Should I Abandon my Academics and Join my Husband?

Good morning Aunty, please help, I am confused on what to do. 
I am to choose between going to meet my hubby because he is not in Nigeria and continuing my education here.
I got married some months back, and my hubby left a month and some days after the wedding.

Wednesday, November 29, 2017

How Do I Conquer Emotional Imbalance, Mood Swing, and Memory Loss?

Hi Amara, thank you for the good work you are doing, may God bless you.
Please I am sorry for the long write up.
I really need your help, am married with three kids but I am not enjoying my marriage.
I suffered depression before marriage nine years ago, and since then I have been suffering from emotional imbalance.

I'm Depressed and Destabilized; Help!

Good morning ma. Hope you're well ma.
I'm really depressed now, I feel something is wrong with me and at this point I just feel like getting lost.
Nothing is working out for me, the only thing I've been able to do is getting good grades in school. I've applied to so many places for job yet.

Monday, November 27, 2017

How Do I Ascertain Her Real Age?

Dear Aunty Amara
I am dating this girl I love so much, I am 28 and she is 26 as claimed, but sometimes my spirit tells me she is more than 26 years,
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