Monday, August 21, 2017

Why Do Christian Ladies Disappoint after Receiving Confirmation from God?

Good day Amara, please am I need some sincere clarifications from you. Why is it that ladies (so called Christian/spirit-filled) will tell you to allow them pray when you first met and asked them out. After sometime, without any pressure from me, they will give me the answer that they have received confirmation from God.

How Do I Loosen my Heart to Love?

Good day ma. My story is a lengthy one but please bear with me. I have been in only one serious relationship before and that was in my first and second year in the university.
When I was in my first year, I swore to keep my virginity for my hubby but somehow I found myself engaging in sex with my boyfriend.
Despite all the ill ways he treated me, I didn't want to leave because he had already deflowered me.

Should I Abort the Baby?

Good evening Mummy, ma my heart is so heavy and am so sad. I met a man around January and he asked me to be in a relationship with him.
After some months, we went for an all round  medical test which included HIV status.

Saturday, August 19, 2017

He Spys on my Conversation.

Good day ma. Please I have a man am engaged to and will be getting married by December. Few days ago he travelled for a job in Lagos. He calls to know how I am doing always.
To my surprise, he called last night and asked, "who is the guy that always call you on phone?"

Thursday, August 17, 2017

Should I Leave Him and Wait for Another Man?

Good afternoon mummy, I have been dating this guy for six years. When we met, we were all loving, close and tight. Two years after we met, everything started changing, he wasn't that sweet guy I used to know, he seemed so distant to me. I tried finding out why the sudden dryness in our relationship, I even had to ask him if he thinks he is out of love for me, buh he kept telling me everything is cool. This guy hardly gives me money, though I don't normally ask him for money, buh he can't on his free will give me money.

How Do I Confront my Parents about His Intention?

Thanks for the word of wisdom and advice you have been giving people like me. We appreciate your effort. The able Lord will make you happy and solve your hidden and known problems.
Ma I need your advice. I am 20 years in my second year in the university and dating a guy of 28 years. He's the first male child of his parents. We've been dating for over a year now. My boyfriend is okay financially and has a good job.

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

Suicidal Thoughts Creeps in my Mind.

Good afternoon ma. Trust you're good.
I have been in a relationship with this guy for a year now.  He knew I had just completed my OND program and I just got a direct entry form to finish up in the university. We have been good, and things has been moving on very fine. He knew my family background.

I'm not the type that talks about my relationship to my people's hearing till I see a level of commitment, and I always give my all in any relationship I'm in. This guy has two degrees and he's currently doing his housemanship in a hospital.

I'm Losing my Sanity in my Marriage!

Good morning ma,
Before I got married to my husband in April, we did not date or have a good friendship. We court for almost a year, but we didn't stay together.
During our courtship he was dating others and when I found out, he will lie and sometimes deny it. When I get too angry, he will ask for forgiveness. Then he hardly call or text, he was so harsh to me but do not beat. He hardly attended to my needs, no time for me, we hardly had a pleasant discussion.

Tuesday, August 15, 2017

My Dad Insists I Return to my Husband!

Greetings to you ma!
Please make out time to read my story.
I'm 28. I got married in 2015 to a man I loved. I moved in with him after our traditional marriage. He was living in their family house(which I objected to) but he promised to look for rented accomodation after our wedding. That was how I was tricked into living with him and his parents.

Should I Marry Him or Quit the Relationship?

Good morning ma, I have been your fan for long, and I thank God for what he is using you to do in our lives.
Ma my problem is I am in a relationship with a guy, the guy seems to be busy cos of his job and so he spends little or no time on me. He calls once in a day and that calling may be brief.

Should I Abort Since He Doesn't Need the Baby?

Good afternoon ma'am, I'm a lady of 31 years and would say life hasn't been easy for me. I lost my parents at very tender age and it was by the grace of God I was able to finish university, but I'm having issues, due to that my result is not ready.
I've had series of disappointment in terms of relationships so I decided to give up on it. Earlier this year, I met a man who's a divorcee and he carried the Bible to swear that he doesn't have anyone.

My Past Has Been my Nightmare.

Good day ma, I've been following your post and I must say I've been blessed by them. I am 24, and am a girl who lived carelessly in the past. If not for God's grace I would have died on the table of abortion.
I've been in different kind of relationships, slept with different kind of guys but at the end I realized it was only destroying myself and I had to stop. Asked God for mercy and moved on.

Monday, August 14, 2017

This is Driving me Crazy!

Mummy thank you for always inspiring us,
may God continue to bless you ma.
Please mummy am writing to you with tears flowing from my eyes. Am really confused.

I met this guy when I was in year one at school and he is in the same department with me but he was in year three when I entered year one.
So he was a first class student then and he always teach me and solve hard science, maths and chemistry questions for me and that made me fall in love with him.
Later, he too fell in love but he always controlled it and I was always going crazy in love for him

Saturday, August 12, 2017

Why Doesn't She Do Chores in my House?

Good evenings ma'am,
I seriously needs your advice and that of your fans.

Am a man of 31 years, a graduate but now own a business. When I was in school, I didn't care about relationships, I always made sure I found my kind that wanna play along, though most times they eventually fall in love with me cos I think I am a likeable person cos am not selfish.

Thursday, August 10, 2017

I'm Bleeding in my Heart!

Dear Aunty Amara, I've gone through your previous post and I must say I've really learnt a lot . .
Aunty Amara, I am in a relationship of about three months and some weeks but the mistake I made was I never asked the guy if he was in a previous relationship . .
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