Friday, July 21, 2017

I Live in Fear in my Marriage!

Good evening aunty Amara... I am married, will be two years in my marriage this November 14th and have been pregnant thrice... I lost two, and am presently on bedrest in my parents' custody.. I don't know if I made a mistake by marrying my husband because I am not enjoying my marriage at all. I've managed to keep quiet but it's eating me up..
The first pregnancy I lost was immediately after our honeymoon, this was due to too much work at home and stress at work...

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

Please Help Me!

Aunty Amara good afternoon, please help me. I have a fiancé, he stays in Lagos but is planning on traveling but I stay in Abuja.
January this year, I took in, but later had a miscarriage.

Does Osu Exist even in Christianity?

Good afternoon Aunty Amara ,God bless you for all you are doing.
My relationship of almost two years has been a beautiful one built on Christ, we have agreed to keep ourselves until after wedding. My introduction has been fixed for October,

I See Him as a Big Lair!

Good morning ma'am,
Thank you so much for what you have been doing. The story I want to share goes like this.
I met my fiancé, he got me engaged. He always said...'he couldn't stand a woman who will cheat and all that', I told him same thing that it was a deal breaker for me.
He then asked if I had a forgiving spirit, I said 'yes' and asked the reason behind the question, and he started narrating how his mother was soooo forgiving and he didn't want to end up with someone who will maltreat him for any little thing he did to her. Then...I took it for that.

Tuesday, July 18, 2017

Rejoinder; Please Talk to my Boyfriend!

Good day ma, I saw this post (please-talk-to-my-boyfriend) on your wall and I believe am the one involved in this..
This is my own story. I pray It gets posted...... My girlfriend has said her side of the story.
Ma'am these all started in 2015 during her Industrial Training (IT) where against my advice of learning bead and wireworks which her sister does, she opted to work where she's paid ₦10000.

Please, Talk to my Boyfriend!

Ma'am good morning ma, ma is so sad to me that I feel so devastated right now. Ma, my boyfriend found out that I went to sleep with a man for money like ₦5,000, so he has been calling me names saying that I am a prostitute;

Is This Guy Playing with my Emotions?

Good day ma'am, please I really need your help and that of your fans...
I meet this guy few months ago.. I really do love him and he also loves me. But the issue now is that his ex girlfriend is really disturbing. He told me he broke up with the girl some many times, but the girl keeps coming on her own...

Monday, July 17, 2017

His Phone Breaks my Heart!

Aunty Amara, please I need your advice on this because I'm really depressed and don't know what to do again.
My husband keeps calling his ex on daily basis,

Sunday, July 16, 2017

How Should I Handle this 'Cousin' of His?

Good evening sister Amara. I thank God for what he has been doing through you. I have been following you for more than three years now, please  l need godly counsel.
I am married for close to seven years now, though it has been a distant marriage but I finally joined my husband few months ago. My husband has a female cousin who is very close to him, he even told me how close they were when we were dating. But on joining my husband, I realised they relate almost like real lovers.

How Do I Overcome Depression and Rejection?

Good evening ma, please I need help. How do I overcome depression and rejection? I feel ruined and I can't focus. I'm 28, I've spent my eight years with a man I met in school. We have endured so much in this life. We were supposed to see my parents officially this January but we had a serious fight in December, and he said he won't continue that after all he never loved me, it was infatuation.

Friday, July 14, 2017

My Single and Lonely Life Affects Me Psychologically!

Good morning ma, thanks for the good work you are doing here cos it's really helping people's life including me. Mum I wrote to you last year and thanks for the advice I got.
Now I have a serious issue bothering me which is about relationship.

Thursday, July 13, 2017

I'm Afraid His Family May Hurt Me!

I was dating a guy for four months but in those months I heard romors that he was seeing someone else. I confronted him but he denied it off, so I was disappointed and I distanced myself from him for a month or soo, but he's still saying he wants only me, that he's not dating the other lady..

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

He Beats and Starves Me!

Please Amara, I have a problem. My marriage is one year and six months.. Last year March, my husband's brother and his wife had problems, so I saw my husband beating up the woman because of that. Village elders rebuked him, his brother too molests a woman.

Should I Terminate the Relationship because of This...?

Aunty Amara, I am in a relationship with someone and we plan to settle down soon but with the way things are going I want to back out before it becomes too late.
He complains that he doesn't like make-up but I love make-up and have been doing it before I met him.

He's Too Ugly to be my Husband!

Good day ma, I want you to counsel me. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years now but the challenge I'm facing now is that I am ashamed to present him to my extended family as my partner.
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