The popular slogan in town is that no man wants to marry a liability; that’s okay. I also agree that a man shouldn't marry a liability. Now today's woman understands that she ought not go into marriage empty handed as she might indeed be a liability both to the man and to herself.
But then, a good number of my fellow women miss a mark at this point. They are preparing not to be a man's liability, without taking into account what some men mean when they say they don't want to marry a liability. We have so many lazy men. Majority of them are boaters. They don't have as much as they claim they do. They are smart and know the hard working ladies. They scoop them off their feet and bath them with heavy romance. With the little they have, they do wonderful things for you.
They take you out, buy you expensive gifts and give you a treat of a life time. They give you the impression they are doing well in career or business, but things just suddenly began to get awful. Sooner or later, they begin to milk you. They will get you to fund their business. Get you to rent and fix their apartments. Before you know it, you are buying property in their name. Some will end up marrying you, but it's all because of your asset. Infact, you will even gladly contribute heavily towards funding your marriage ceremony, after all, its your marriage too.
Without knowing it, you that doesn't want to be the liability; you that is working your life dry just to be financially independent, has actually married a liability, who is partially or totally dependent on you. After marriage, you begin to pay the bills and still enable him with a suatainance budget.
Don't be any man's liability and don't allow any man be your liability too. Be financially independent and be sure you are also marrying a financially dependent man. Never forget: He is the provider, you are his helpmate.
But then, a good number of my fellow women miss a mark at this point. They are preparing not to be a man's liability, without taking into account what some men mean when they say they don't want to marry a liability. We have so many lazy men. Majority of them are boaters. They don't have as much as they claim they do. They are smart and know the hard working ladies. They scoop them off their feet and bath them with heavy romance. With the little they have, they do wonderful things for you.
They take you out, buy you expensive gifts and give you a treat of a life time. They give you the impression they are doing well in career or business, but things just suddenly began to get awful. Sooner or later, they begin to milk you. They will get you to fund their business. Get you to rent and fix their apartments. Before you know it, you are buying property in their name. Some will end up marrying you, but it's all because of your asset. Infact, you will even gladly contribute heavily towards funding your marriage ceremony, after all, its your marriage too.
Without knowing it, you that doesn't want to be the liability; you that is working your life dry just to be financially independent, has actually married a liability, who is partially or totally dependent on you. After marriage, you begin to pay the bills and still enable him with a suatainance budget.
Don't be any man's liability and don't allow any man be your liability too. Be financially independent and be sure you are also marrying a financially dependent man. Never forget: He is the provider, you are his helpmate.
