Saturday, January 23, 2016

He Complains of my Sex Appeal!

Please ma I've seen so many cases you solved and I want you to help me out here. I have a fiancé whom I've dated for almost four years now. I love him so much and he already came with his people to our house.
The problem is,now he thinks I don't look sexually appealing to him like some of the things I do now turn him off. He has been complaining though but the point is I don't know what and what the problem is and when I asked he just said can't I use my head?
He is an open guy and he never hides his feelings. He tells you the way it is. He told me he can stay in the house for one week and he'll not be moved to touch me. I'm so confused right now cos he's bitter and saying I wasn't like this some months back that it can only get worse if I don't change and he loves me. I can vouch that he doesn't cheat. Please ma help me out. How do I go about this? I'm so confused right now.


When a man is distracted by another lady, he naturally begins to compare the lady closer with the one of his imagination and only time will tell what happens next.
Relationship is a joint project and every partner has a role to play in ensuring that the relationship succeeds and that the needs of each partner is met without much tension and stress.
If he noticed that you were no longer as appealing for him as you were in the past, it's either that he's used to the contours of your skin and now feels like having a new wine or that you have gotten used to him that you no longer make yourself emotionally available for him in a way that wows his heart.
But where I have problem is why he couldn't lovingly open up to you and help you be the kind of lady that he craves for or remind you of those things which he felt that you have forgotten to do.
That notwithstanding, go all out and woo him, be clean inside and outside, wear dresses that reveals some part of your sexy flesh to him and allow his eyes to capture your laps so that he can do the imagination for himself.
Be trendy, be free, be beautiful and be seductive and I'm certain that the groove will be back to full bar. For the fact that he opened up is an opportunity for you to help him realise that what he has within is more than what he imagines whenever he's out.
But then again isn't it too early for you to serve him like your husband when he hasn't paid your dowry? I'm only asking but I'm sure you know better than I think.

3 comments:

  1. Na waoh...... Sex appeal from a lady you have not wifed? What is he planning to do with the 'sex appeal'?
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  2. Are you leaving with him already?? Bcos is one of the things that makes them talk or act somehow

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  3. Are you leaving with him already?? Bcos is one of the things that makes them talk or act somehow

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