Wednesday, February 3, 2016

I Don't Have any Feelings for Him!

Good day ma, I really love your page keep it up. Ma I am married with kids I got married 2013, it was last year June that I found out that my husband was cheating on me.
There was this lady always calling my husband if I asked him who was this lady, he will tell me that she was a lady that was helping him in school because he was running one program in school.
So I said okay, one day you will finished this programme he didn't say anything. Now he has finished the programme, this lady keeps on calling, sending her nude picture to my husband. When I go through his WhatsApp message I saw everything so that was how I found out that he was cheating on me.
Now I don't have any feelings for him again. Please my sister tell me what to do.


Discuss with your husband and find out what he's not telling you. Try as much as you can not to be tense while expressing your feelings so that you don't sound like you are disrespecting him or nagging to him.
Communicating with him will at least let him know how much you are pained, disappointed and troubled whenever you get to know that he's not contented with you and he's not comfortable with your personality.
If he's willing to open up and apologise, then forgive him and pray for him.
Sometimes it can be hurting but when you consider where you began, what you have invested, your children and the future of your marriage, you would not want to give up on your marriage for a stranger.
This is the best moment to pray for him and encourage him in anyway you can. What nagging, shouting and fighting can't resolve, an effective prayers of the righteous can melt. Always pray for him and pray with him against any spirit of infidelity in your marriage and surrender him to the Holy spirit to redeem him and restore him to God's planning and purpose for your marriage.
Let his phone be, and focus more on winning his heart through prayers and intercession. His grace is sufficient for you even in times like these.

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  2. I can understand the pain u feel right now...I know how painful it feels to be betrayed, but thrust me God can heal ur broken heart if u let him. This is the time ur husband needs ur prayers the most! I understand it will be very hard for u to kneel down and pray for him at time but then U just have to do it. I will recommend a movie for you titled "War Room" Its a movie Every woman shoud see, to get a better perspective of what marriage entails...Allow God to fight for you...U feel like beating him up to feel better?Let God do the beating for you!! God will fix this for you IJN Amen.

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