Wednesday, February 10, 2016

I'm Tired of Always Talking to Him!

Good day mum. Please I really need your advise concerning issues about my marriage because I'm at a crossroad now.
I married my husband in 2014 and by Gods grace we have a beautiful daughter. My pregnancy wasn't easy for me and on top of it I had to deal with my husband's unfaithfulness during that period. He slept with several girls and I always saw the aftermath of those illicit affairs on the zip of his trousers(sperm) coupled with WhatsApp messages and calls. I cried and tried to leave him but he pleaded and I forgave him.
After childbirth he continued and I still forgave him. I've prayed, and talked heart to heart with him and through all he promised to change. He didn't keep to his word cos he now sleeps in the hall and I just found out he's back to his old ways and I'm just tired of always talking to him,I wanted to involve an elder at our church to talk to him but I just don't know how to go about it so I've just resorted to separate from him for a while so I went to stay somewhere else and return later.
Please help me because I don't know if I'm on the right track. Thanks very much for your help. God bless you.

You need to consider talking to someone who he respects and someone who he will listen to about his infidelity so that he or she will have a heart to heart talk with him and find out ways to help him overcome his weaknesses. Please be very careful with the elder or the person that you wish to discuss this with to avoid hearing your marital challenges on your street or in your church.
And where you are not safe to have sex with him, it would be advisable for you to insist on the use of condom before sexual intercourse to avoid contracting sexually transmitted infections and diseases for being kind with him.
Infidelity is one of the cancerous attitude that has the potential to crush the trust, love and the passion one has invested in building a home.
Then you need to remember that your battle is not physical but a spiritual one and only by the divine grace and intervention of God can your husband be restored to you and your family. Realising that he's addicted to sleeping around, you will need to continually pray for him without ceasing or losing hope.
Pray for him and pray with him,draw him close and maintain a healthy communication with him so that you can discern when he's on his way back to cheating on you.
I pray that God will give you the wisdom and the grace to manage this challenge and strengthen your family.

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